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nannihe wrote :
ah, Renee, I used to go to the fast track but got no responses and I appreciate your advice. I am trying to sort thru some options and learn to do this. I'm afraid i've been very lazy and lack luster also. ha.
I wasn't aware i didn't have a picture. my goodness i will have to keep up. I have a lot to learn. I am enjoying these forums and the advice. I did hate the questions. I'm not moving is the main point. ha. I love it here.
It took me forever to get to new mexico and i can't give it up. Most seem to halt at that but i do need to get my picture up. hmmmm
thanks.
Hi nannihe,

Glad you are enjoying our Advice site!

Yes, it does take a little time to figure out how to make the most of your eHarmony search! Especially if you are asking matches to FastTrack, it is very important to have a really dynanic profile, which includes photos.

I hope that you will decide to post some photos and maybe take another look at your About Me page to make sure your answers are detailed, thorough, and give your matches a real sense of who you are.

In case you weren't aware of it, we have Profile Workships on this forum that can help you create the best About Me page possible. Here's a link to get you started: http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...sted-here.html (eHarmony Profile Workshop Threads (Links listed here))

Then after updating your profile, you may want to give FastTrack another try. These changes may be just what was needed to inspire matches to accept your communication requests!

I understand that you are very happy in New Mexico and not interested at all in moving. That's fine. Remember only one member needs to be willing to move, and, as I mentioned before, finding The One is a process of elimination. So even if the vast majority of matches may not be interested in moving to N.M., that doesn't mean no one will be.

So there really is no reason you can't have a successful eHarmony experience, and I encourage you to give your search another good try.

All the best,

-Renee
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