Inspired4life is offline Inspired4life Post #1  November 4,2009, 10:10am
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This is my 3rd time trying E-harmony and after hundreds and hundreds of profiles I select the ones with the most similar interests like out going enjoys conversation, but in reality I have only had 2 men respond to chat with me. I send flirts, I send 1 set of questions I send photos on request then suddenly they lose interest and close communication??? Hmmmm I ask open ended questions based on statements made in their profiles.... Truly their can't be these masses of men who have an inability to start a conversation?? What other suggestions do any of you have cause I really am thinking this is a waste of time when their are absolutely no 2 way conversations
 
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This is my 3rd time trying E-harmony and after hundreds and hundreds of profiles I select the ones with the most similar interests like out going enjoys conversation, but in reality I have only had 2 men respond to chat with me. I send flirts, I send 1 set of questions I send photos on request then suddenly they lose interest and close communication??? Hmmmm I ask open ended questions based on statements made in their profiles.... Truly their can't be these masses of men who have an inability to start a conversation?? What other suggestions do any of you have cause I really am thinking this is a waste of time when their are absolutely no 2 way conversations
Some of the guys have said this before, and I think it's true - it's really a numbers game. If you are too selective and so are your matches, then you end up with no dates. Remember that getting to Open Communication with someone, or even going on a date with them, does not commit you to a relationship with them.

Just know that you are not the only one feeling this way.
 
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Inspired4life wrote :
This is my 3rd time trying E-harmony and after hundreds and hundreds of profiles I select the ones with the most similar interests like out going enjoys conversation, but in reality I have only had 2 men respond to chat with me. I send flirts, I send 1 set of questions I send photos on request then suddenly they lose interest and close communication??? Hmmmm I ask open ended questions based on statements made in their profiles.... Truly their can't be these masses of men who have an inability to start a conversation?? What other suggestions do any of you have cause I really am thinking this is a waste of time when their are absolutely no 2 way conversations
Post the questions you're asking. (I personally hate flirts... it says "I like to play games instead of just being straight from the start.)
 
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