mstrzn is offline mstrzn Post #31  January 2,2010, 4:16pm
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I joined because I'm almost 42 and I'm tired of feeling like a 3rd wheel. Most of my friends are married or cohabitating and I'm tired of being that single friend. Not to be egotistic, I think I'm an attractive guy, yes I have some of the middle age gut. I think that aside my problem is I'm a red head. Now being a red head is fine if you're a woman because a female red head is thought of as dangerous or sexy.

However if you're a red head male and they way they've been portrayed in movies and tv, you fall into one of 2 catagories. Either as the uber geek or the trusted best friend. Red head guys are never ment to get the girl. One of the reason I joined Eharmony was because they seem to try to really match people. On Jan 19 my 3 month membership is up and I not had one single connection. As far as online dating sites Eharmony was kind of my one hope and even that failed me.
 
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So, what causes a guy to sign up on EH when they aren't ready? I just don't get it. Is it a whim or what?
I don't understand... why would this apply more so to one sex?
 
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I believe it's just an excuse they use when they don't want to pursue a relationship with you...I think we all have a hard time saying, "I'm just not interested in you!" I know I do. Does anyone have any advice on how to say that respectfully?
 
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