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lusha is offline lusha Post #1  May 7,2009, 9:20am
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so what do i do now to find my mr right....i want to be matched find the guy for me...where do i look next...or being unable to match me...what is that saying about myself....am i too weird...too what...help if you can...
 
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Not sure if you just created the profile and wasn't matched or actually paid the money ($60) for one month. If you pay, no doubt you'll get a few matches. I went form a few matches to many more after I paid (i've been on here for a couple of weeks). So far I've not been to awfully happy with the matches or the site but it is early. I'm not suggesting you pay, just saying that when it's all said and done, this site is here to make $$$.
 
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The first time I did the match thing, they told me the same thing.


We're sorry,You are so weird and stupid, there is no one on planet earth that we can match you with.





But after waiting awhile, and retaking the test, they suddenly found me matches.


Dont know if I answered the questions different,or they just need more money now, but I suggest just retake the test,It might do the same for you.
 
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I have JUST joined so I cannot attest to the 'pay and you'll be matched' idea. However, I would probably take the personality profile again and see if it doesn't turn out differently. I like to think that I am consistently consistent.. but depending on your mood and thoughts at the time, you just may have different enough responses than the first time you took it. Good Luck either way!
 
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Aidyl is offline Aidyl Post #5  May 14,2009, 5:32pm
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Funny, I am hearing a lot of this. I am begining to wonder about all the hub. Is eharmony all it makes itself out to be, or is it just leading a lot of people by the nose ring for the bucks $$$. Two months ago I paid the fee for 6 months. The first month I got matches for people that lived outside of the country from me when I specified a distance of 150 miles. I got one of those forms asking me what I thought of eharmony, so I let them know about their mistake. So they fix that problem and in the last month I have had one match. So I expand the distance. Still nothing. I can't believe that I am that difficult to match. I don't think I'm that hard to look at. I'm self-employed, so I'm not needy. I do walk to my own beat, but I'm hardly wierd. So why am I not getting any matches. I do think eharmony could expand on there profile options or catagories. That might help for some people.
 
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Don't feel bad. I got the same awnser from them. But being single at 54 yrs. old (never been married) I kinda knew that already. Don't waste your time with them unless you are a nonsmoking 9 to 5 office worker type.
 
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I tried to join eHarmony, must be about 5 years ago - they said I had a very unusual personality and they didn't think they could help me......so I couldn't even join.

I have now joined and so far it is very interesting.
 
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Aidyl wrote :
Funny, I am hearing a lot of this. I am begining to wonder about all the hub. Is eharmony all it makes itself out to be, or is it just leading a lot of people by the nose ring for the bucks $$$. Two months ago I paid the fee for 6 months. The first month I got matches for people that lived outside of the country from me when I specified a distance of 150 miles. I got one of those forms asking me what I thought of eharmony, so I let them know about their mistake. So they fix that problem and in the last month I have had one match. So I expand the distance. Still nothing. I can't believe that I am that difficult to match. I don't think I'm that hard to look at. I'm self-employed, so I'm not needy. I do walk to my own beat, but I'm hardly wierd. So why am I not getting any matches. I do think eharmony could expand on there profile options or catagories. That might help for some people.
I had the same issue with not receiving any matches. I eventually gave up and joined another site...and met the most incredible guy within 2 weeks. He's a much better match than any that I ever received on EH. I like EH at first, but my experience with the other site really changed that opinion.

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lsfein is offline lsfein Post #9  May 20,2009, 12:34pm
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Don't sweat it, and don't keep paying their fee--that is my advice. I have been a member for more than two years and had a very low match rate (about one or two per month) and have not gotten a single date. I am finally quitting with the money out put--but I am staying on here.
Maybe eharmony just doesn't attract the kind of person who would make a good match for you. There are TONS of other websites out there--and they are free, too. Why not try them? I just don't think eharmony is all it cracks itself up to be.
 
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JaneJane is offline JaneJane Post #10  May 23,2009, 3:38pm
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I am not a member; I just don't care for dating sites on the computer, but I like the advice sections here. To find someone I recommend get out and do stuff - like dance lessons, singles groups, hiking or outdoor groups - things like that. I was on Yahoo.com and was dissapointed with it, but maybe it is me - I would have to force myself to get out and actually date again at 52.
 
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