eharmony said i didnt fall into any of their profiles for matching me with a man


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JaneJane is offline JaneJane Post #11  May 23,2009, 3:45pm
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GG what site was it? You would be doing us all a favor to tell??? My sister met her husband on the computer; they were married in 2002 - so it I may sound cynical but I've seen it work. But after reading how so many of the people here have not found matches I will stay on the advice side and may no join EH.
 
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soawesome is offline soawesome Post #12  May 27,2009, 10:03am
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KyBonaFide wrote :
Not sure if you just created the profile and wasn't matched or actually paid the money ($60) for one month. If you pay, no doubt you'll get a few matches. I went form a few matches to many more after I paid (i've been on here for a couple of weeks). So far I've not been to awfully happy with the matches or the site but it is early. I'm not suggesting you pay, just saying that when it's all said and done, this site is here to make $$$.
I have to disagree. I'm new on eH, but I got more matches when i wasn't registered. Since i paid in, i've only had 2 more (had about 26 before). Now I have to say it concerns me that even though I think i'm beautiful, maybe it's my pic being available that's working against me now.... i don't know.... i'm determined to remain hopeful.
 
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hippo is offline hippo Post #13  June 6,2009, 12:04pm
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I am very disappointed with this web. I pay for 3 months and will end up membership by the end of July. So far I have not got a meaningful date. When it turn to open communication after a few weeks, you find that that "match" is really not what you want. So why not open communication in the very beginning? I dont want to burn my money here.
 
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JDavid is offline JDavid Post #14  June 8,2009, 12:08pm
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In these advice boards a lot of insight is available by going to a member's profile. First, many have no information posted -- which seems to indicate a lack of motivation to communicate (or possibly a fear of people).

Another bit of information available in a person's profile is in "My Activity" which shows how recently the person posted or uploaded. Many have done neither recently and show as "more than a month ago". I would think it safe to conclude that if a person has not posted or uploaded in a month, they are no longer active in the boards.

It is very illuminating to use the search function for people (say by age, religious preference, politics) and go to the profile of people selected. Most are "more than a month ago".

Though this may not necessarily apply to the parent organization, it could be true there too. It would be helpful to be able to search or sort by "most recent post" to focus on people who are active.
 
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I am soooo glad I run into this discussion group. I was beginning to think I was the only person that was not getting any matches!!!
 
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