What if someone asks if they want to see more pictures of you???


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FlyinBy4Now is offline FlyinBy4Now Post #21  May 14,2009, 4:14am
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Emanze: Of the three pics you have posted in your profile, is one of them a full body shot? Yes or No? It matters.
 
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damyankee wrote :
Just because a person doesn't post a picture, it does not mean they are hiding anything. Maybe don't have recent pics or whatever...................the issue is this person is seeing a picture(s) and insisting on seeing MORE..........WHY????? If how she looks is THE most important thing for this guy, then he is superfiscal................MY OPINION ONLY. Everyone is entitled to one.
Fair enough,however i would be best if those who don't post pictures or who are offended by anybody asking for them would cease from making character judgements about others based on their request...and to not complain about their lack of responses to request for communication...IMHO
 
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lsfein is offline lsfein Post #23  May 20,2009, 12:42pm
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MazarineSunset wrote :
I'm very honest and blunt, usually.


I would ask him WHY does he want more photos? photos of what? What is he looking for? If he wants to see me in daily life, doing my hobbies, with my dog, etc to get a feel for my personality, fine. I'll get/ take more photos and post them. But I will also ask the same of him.


Why not offer to exchange a photo for a photo? he sends one, you send one? communication, by e-mail or photo, is a two-way street.


If he's looking for a particular shape and size - he can go buy a mannequin. I'm not a model, and I won't / don't want to be one. I haven't seen a 'model' male specimen in my age bracket on here and I'm not looking for one. If he IS looking for a model, then I'm not wasting my time. (which is one reason I dropped my EH membership. Not one ever got past questions to real communication - so I stopped wasting my time & $$).


And I won't buy stories of "I have no one to take photos', I don't have a camera', etc. These days you can pick up a digital camera for less than 1 month's membership to EH - not to mention camera phones, etc. If you're going to E-date, you must e-communicate! Including photos of YOU living life.
Ditto. Exactly. To everything above, including dropping my eharmony member$hip!
 
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