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Just wanted to say hi! I am 25 and just got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship that was unfortunately going nowhere. The most unfortunate part of it is that my daughter loves him. She is 5 and is the light of my life. I sometimes wish there was a manual that told you how not to screw things up. But then I would get just a bit bored and would rebel. The worst part about it was telling my daughter. My ex and I had been slowly parting ways for awhile but neither wanted to actually end it. Have I mentioned my daughter yet? Ya she is my world and I broke up with the only Dad she has known. I whole heartedly think it was a good thing. I just can't get past the fact that my daughter almost cried and said...Now I wont have a Daddy. That broke my heart. Has anyone else gone through something similiar? Any ideas on how to mend the gates? My ex still hangs around and is packing out the last of his stuff. He still wants to be a Dad to her but I worry that he will get bored with it and move on or just not have enough time. Looking for something besides negative advice.
 
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