Wht if a girl says tht u r a good person and deserve much more in life?


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Ron123 is offline Ron123 Post #1  July 27,2009, 10:00pm
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actually
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i gave a gift to her through someone else and told tht person to tell her someone else's name
well she came to know tht it was me so she came to me and was mad and gave the gift back to me telling tht u can do whtever u want so i just took it without saying anything but she waited for few seconds and i dont know why and then she says tht i deceived her ..i was surprised and got pissed so i said whtever.....she went away really mad and took me out frm facbook.....so then the next day i sent her a message tht i am sorry for being rude and tht i just wanted to see her happy and tht i am not asking anything back frm u
she then replied next day tht she totally understands me and all tht and tht i am a good person and deserve much more in life.......well then i met her the other day and said at least u said one thing tht "i dont deserve u"....she was like shocked and then said atleast we are making friends ....when i passed by a booth tht sameday where she was siting, she just was looking at me smilin..i was like whtver and didnt look at all
 
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tvrohr is offline tvrohr Post #2  September 4,2009, 2:20pm
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maybe you should include all your vowels and be more mature
 
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lindseygrace is offline lindseygrace Post #3  November 23,2009, 2:22pm
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She means it. She probably does think you are a really great person but for some reason or another she does not like you as more than a friend. This probably will not change I'm sorry
 
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Ricky_Bobby is offline Ricky_Bobby Post #4  March 29,2010, 4:33pm
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Im gonna have to agree with both these ladies on this one. One, u talk like your in high school, which i might add is not a turn on for people who are seeking real commitment. And second, she probably does like you somewhat as a friend, but if u keep going around ignoring her and basically treating her like crap, that "might be" will no longer exist. Don't be so quick to burn bridges. you'll regret it later.
 
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I cant figure out why you would do this kind of thing in the first place even???? So u bought her a gift and had someone else give it to her with some other guys name on it? Wasn't there a movie like this with Steve Martin and from a book or something..the guy with the big nose story? I can't remember all about it but basically heres some news.

First if you like a woman, then you should have courage to tell her and ask her for a date yourself. What you did was pretty silly and not very mature.

Second, she sounds like she is sort of confused too so maybe you are both too confused about what you want and what you can do about it to even think about dating.

Taking time to date means being honest and talking honestly about what you are thinking, not being deceptive which YES you were.

I think you should return the gift to the store and buy yourself a vowel then consider being the kind of person you want to date-someone who is honest and has courage to just ask someone out for a date.
 
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i concur lady with the kitty cat profile picture
 
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gnsnyc is offline gnsnyc Post #7  May 22,2010, 11:00pm
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Hey-
I think you should thank her for doing you a favor. One, you do need to add your vowels in...I know it's probably easier not too....let me see.... knw t's prbbly sr...NO not working for me..so YES add your vowels. Second, you don't really need someone who has no interest in you, even after you explain the details behind what you did. Third, you need some time to get the gist of making a good impression on someone you like.

Be true to yourself and don't let one mistake in this case 2 mistakes (sending a messenger to deliver a gift and lying about who sent the gift) shape who you are. So learn from the mistake and move on...to someone else.
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