SiriusBraveFan is offline SiriusBraveFan Post #1  July 25,2009, 4:37pm
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First off, I'm 29 and I think one of my problems is I don't have that many guy friends to go out and do stuff with..either going out to the local bar or whatever. Although I see them occasionally, many of my high school/college friends are either married or it just seems I don't have that much in common with them anymore...at least not enough to where I'm doings things with them very often. Most of my close friends happen to be females. This sort of leads to one problem...or maybe it's not really a problem and I just don't know how to handle it. But seems a little hard to meet a woman when you're around a group of females.

On a related note and really leads to my main question...sometimes when the small group of friends have other plans and I feel like just going out and doing something, is it weird to just go out to some bar or place by yourself? Some people have told me not to do that because when a guy is just hanging out all alone like that you may look like a weirdo or something. I'm an independent person and really don't mind doings things alone most of the time. However, it is a little awkward sometimes. What do you think? Anyone ponder this? Thanks.
 
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