stevex is offline stevex Post #11  July 9,2009, 2:27pm
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On the opposite end of the spectrum, I am mainly attracted to women older than me. I enjoy their company which I find much more pleasant than the company of 18 and 19 year old girls (and that is what they are).
 
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overyou is offline overyou Post #12  July 29,2009, 5:14am
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I really go for men older than me. It's actually the maturity and life experiences that i'm so keen. However, you can meet 45 who acts like 25, or 25 who thinks like 45 so it's up to you whom to choose...
 
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sweetlyme3 is offline sweetlyme3 Post #13  August 5,2009, 8:54pm
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[COLOR=black]I'm totally into dating older guys.... and it has nothing to do with money.

[COLOR=black]I like people for who they are as people, how we click, and not the age they happen to be; nonetheless I find myself more often attracted to older men, and have not been attracted to any younger men thus far. It’s probably because I related better to older people, and find most men my age too immature for my taste.
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laurel4664 is offline laurel4664 Post #14  October 27,2009, 4:43pm
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I've dated men up to 12 years older than me as well as men up to 2 years younger than me. I'm not looking for a daddy figure, however I do prefer older men (a couple years is good, there is no specific age group/gap) because they tend to know what they want and have it together. I've always been mature for my age and so dating older men tends to work out better for me. I think some of the older men I've dated actually take better care of some of the men younger than them! But then again it all depends on the person...
 
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i too am atracted to older men, its the maturity and life experiances which atract me, and i find guys my age to be too childish! not that i find ALL men nearer my age to be like this....but most of them have had the mentle age of a 12 year old, and i prefer a guy who is mature but also knows how to have fun, and knows when to tone it down.....but so far i have never got as far as actually dating an older guy, most of them take one look and would much rather have me as a friend then a potential partner!...story of my life!
 
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I get a lot of flak from my family concerning how I feel about a man's age. While it's not a hard and fast rule of mine, I don't date younger men and prefer men 3 to 9 years older. Unfortunately, they tend to be taken...
 
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I'm good with my age or older. I remember when I was twenty, my mother told me she thought anything over 32 was a bit much. It was a shock at the time, but there is something very nice about men who have already had time to figure out who they are and what they want.
 
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Aright, first, I a attracked to older men, but! I know that age is just a number. To me it's what s in his mind and his heart that matters. I married a man 13 years older than me and soon learned this valuable lesson. Age has nothing to do with it. Even at 32 he acted like a 12 year old. And had taken all those years of life experience and decided tha he knew best all the time, "my way or the highway" mentality. Men and women grow diferently, mentally, physically, and emotionally. We are all individuals and have to be aware that age isn't everything, or anything more than a number.
 
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As many others have already said, it's just about a match in maturity levels. I may be a 20-something, but almost all of my circle of friends are 30-somethings because I get along with them better. So it just is natural for my dating relationships to follow the same pattern. I don't have anything against younger guys, but so far have not met any that match up well with me.
 
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Magallon is offline Magallon Post #20  April 10,2011, 5:42pm
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Hey!! I'm new to this whole deal, and would love to meet that "special someone"! Figured I would give this a try and see where it goes! I'm attracted to females that are my age or older. Anyone from the DFW, TX area in here?
 
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