You need to go to MSN or Yahoo and join Fathers Rights groups. Men lose due process which means we are all guilty of being male [under divorce laws this is a heavy $$ burden that can include jail time.] I'm in the same shoes as you and have been fighting Parental Alienation on and off since 1999.

My ex-wife is worse; she's always yelling at everyone. She still yells at her first son, at her boyfriend, at my son and at me. I have no relationship with her and she never informs me about anything per my son, his education, etc.

My son is terrified of her and she has beaten him up. She also beat up her first son [she punched him several times and tried to throw him out a 3rd story window] who turned on her when he was a teenager. I was there, many times I had to stop both of them from coming to blows at each other.

She has always and still does say bad things about me to my son. Sometimes he tells me what she says. She did the same thing to the father of her first son. I hate talking to her as she's one of the most negative & violent person I've ever encountered. In court, she has teflon, except for one Judge who had Sheriffs physically remove her after she threatened my lawyer.

My ex-wife can dance circles around many American women. I don't mean this as an insult. She was born and raised in a former Communist country. Living under Communist rule is a hard life and when you get to America, it's like you already have a PhD in living. Like a Super Virus, you can easily cut thru American life...doing things and taking advantage of the law. It's difficult to explain.

I divorced her but she moved 2,000 miles away. She's the biggest biotch, yells at me when she is in a bad mood [every day which is one reason why I divorced her] & has hunp up on me on her bad days. I've bent over backwards including have paid 100% for all child visitation [she was supposed to have paid 50% for transportation all these years per our divorce agreement.]

I also ignore her verbal outburts; though it makes talking to my son difficult when someone has just blasted you for no reason. Likewise, as the father,
I urge you to ignore her childlike outburts. For me it's difficult because she definitely is an ahole who likewise lied to & abused other men before me. As she is doing to her current boyfriend who's a great guy.

Verbally violent American women today can do almost anything because Judges hesitate to punish the mothers of children [the whole Trillion dollar Divorce Profit Industry hindges on the legal system bribing women.] But were you and I to yell at them? Oh no, that's Domestic Violence.

However this is changing via men protesting the Divorce Courts and laws. You [and I] need evidence she is abusing you. You might need to buy some recording device and record her verbal abuse. Forget your attorney-an attorney in Colorado said something similiar to me years ago-he needed $10,000 to take her to court. When I pressed him he told me "well she doesn't have to listen to the Judges orders." I never hired him.

Instead I suggest you hire a Father friendly Lawyer. You can find out about them thru a Men's Rights and Fathers Rights website. Bottomline Men's Rights are fighting for equal rights while feminist websites deny Parental Alientation even happens.

It's a $ war where the lawyers win and the children lose.
Good luck.