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nightling is offline nightling Post #1  July 31,2010, 7:24am
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It has come to my attention from a rather prominent person here that a majority of members here have experienced many of my posts as condescending and arrogant or as a different person put it cold and unemotional.

I have no parting shot to make about any of that.

If you are reading this as someone who felt that way about a post I made, then I merely wish to say, I am sorry I made you feel bad. If you are reading this as someone who enjoyed my posts, then I merely wish to say thank you.

After giving this some consideration and thought, I am going to take my leave of this place.

I have experienced all of you as interesting and amazing people who have a lot to offer the right match. My life would have missed something had I not bumped into many of you, PY, Trixie, Breezy, Teeps, Jo, PSG, Scarlett, Buck ... and many others so numerous to name that I'm tearing up a little thinking about that list. Many of you lifted me up when I was down and helped a confused girl find her way, and I think you are all fine people whose company I was privileged to share for a time.

Good luck in life and stay safe and well.
 
 
Breezy1 is online now Breezy1 Post #2  July 31,2010, 7:31am
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WHAT????????????????????

Don't go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
 
TheThinker is offline TheThinker Post #3  July 31,2010, 7:32am
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There's something I learned nightling, that may mean something to you, it may not.
No matter who you are or what your best intentions are...there is always someone who just ain't gonna like you. And that's just the way it is.
Don't ever try to please everyone, it just isn't possible.

You've made your decision, though and I respect it.

Take care.
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Mokkesofie is offline Mokkesofie Post #4  July 31,2010, 7:40am
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It honestly breaks my heart to see you leave nightling. I have always enjoyed your posts and links and I will miss them. I wish you happy trails as well.
 
 
scarlet13 is offline scarlet13 Post #5  July 31,2010, 7:50am

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what are you talking about?

why are you leaving because of what someone else said other people said about your posts?
 
 
scarlet13 is offline scarlet13 Post #6  July 31,2010, 7:51am

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besides, you shouldn't leave just because some people read your posts a certain way.

if i did that i would have been here a week.
 
 
scarlet13 is offline scarlet13 Post #7  July 31,2010, 7:52am

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who are these gossipy people? show yourself !
 
 
tjlpd is offline tjlpd Post #8  July 31,2010, 7:53am
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Nightling one persons thoughts are not those of the board. I could see how someone might if they read a few of your post think something like this. But I have been reading your posts for a while and I think you add a lot to the board. You put a more thoughtful vs emotional focus on your posts which is very much needed in this forum. I hope you will reconsider. Anyway, I have enjoyed your posts and I will miss you.
 
 
margaret18 is offline margaret18 Post #9  July 31,2010, 8:00am
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i hope you will reconsider this decision. i think many of us appreciated you BECAUSE you told it like it is and your opinions added a lot to the boards.

if someone took it the wrong way, that happens all the time.... i know you know that, so this must have been something that got to you...
 
 
littlebluemonkeymind is offline littlebluemonkeymind Post #10  July 31,2010, 8:01am
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Nightling,

You are hardly cold and unemotional. We all go through cycles, here, some good and some not so good. You have made good contributions to this community and I'll be sorry to see you go. But, if that's what you feel is best for you - I can only respect that and wish you the best.

As someone who welcomed you here the first time around, I'd welcome you back should you change your mind.

Be well.

LBMM
 
 
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