Professionally finding your mate.


Reply
  • Page 1 of 2
  • 1
  • 2
 
Topic Tools Search this Thread
letsdolunch is offline letsdolunch Post #1  March 14,2010, 7:32pm
letsdolunch's Avatar

is happy.

Newbie

Joined: Mar 2010

Inland Empire

Posts: 1

See profile

I'm fresh to the dating seen after 18 years. But, I gotta get real and start looking around and check out some of the fine looking ladies that I regularly see at work.

By the way I sell senior insurance products such as Medicare Advantage or Final Expenses Insurance Policies. I do well financially.

My ultimate desire is to get matched up with a woman about 20 years younger than myself. Am I a pig?

I just turned 50 and it took me a little while to fully accept that I'm already fifty and freaking qualified to join AARP.

I feel younger though. My ideal age in a woman is about 28 to 35 years old. I find that age level fun and adventurous in a woman.



 
  Reply With Quote
PinkPassion is offline PinkPassion Post #2  April 17,2010, 11:22pm
PinkPassion's Avatar

Thinking of bubble baths with rose petals

Newbie

Joined: Apr 2010

California, USA

Posts: 31

See profile

letsdolunch wrote :
I'm fresh to the dating seen after 18 years. But, I gotta get real and start looking around and check out some of the fine looking ladies that I regularly see at work.

By the way I sell senior insurance products such as Medicare Advantage or Final Expenses Insurance Policies. I do well financially.

My ultimate desire is to get matched up with a woman about 20 years younger than myself. Am I a pig?

I just turned 50 and it took me a little while to fully accept that I'm already fifty and freaking qualified to join AARP.

I feel younger though. My ideal age in a woman is about 28 to 35 years old. I find that age level fun and adventurous in a woman.


Stop looking at work.. Go out to look. Dating and work, for the most does not usually end with smiles. I feel it is ok that you date younger than you but make sure you dont date girls that are just looking for a sugar daddy. Those girls will take you for all you have and run with out even looking back. Another thing to remember about dating someone younger, they may want to settle down and start a family. Are you ready to be father at 50?
 
  Reply With Quote
cp30 is offline cp30 Post #3  April 17,2010, 11:56pm

has only threatened to give up

Power Poster

Joined: Dec 2007

Up in the NW corner somewhere, but not quite Canada :)

Posts: 7,750

See profile

a pig? I don't know.

Realistic? No way. I have no desire to date a man who is 50 years old.

I'm 33.
 
  Reply With Quote
mari3434 is offline mari3434 Post #4  April 17,2010, 11:58pm
mari3434's Avatar

Quick Study

Joined: Oct 2009

Posts: 196

See profile

I am 34 and would not date a man who was 50~ unless he was Harrison Ford or Richard Gere!
 
  Reply With Quote
cp30 is offline cp30 Post #5  April 18,2010, 12:10am

has only threatened to give up

Power Poster

Joined: Dec 2007

Up in the NW corner somewhere, but not quite Canada :)

Posts: 7,750

See profile

mari3434 wrote :
I am 34 and would not date a man who was 50~ unless he was Harrison Ford or Richard Gere!
I was going to add that caveat too
 
  Reply With Quote
mari3434 is offline mari3434 Post #6  April 18,2010, 12:27am
mari3434's Avatar

Quick Study

Joined: Oct 2009

Posts: 196

See profile

cp30 wrote :
I was going to add that caveat too
yeah - the OP is just simply unrealistic in his hopes or expectations. I find this seems to be common with men -they want women significantly younger than them.
 
  Reply With Quote
meri75 is offline meri75 Post #7  April 18,2010, 4:51am
meri75's Avatar

really wants a double dissolution in 2011!

Power Poster

Joined: Mar 2009

Australia

Posts: 5,112

See profile

letsdolunch wrote :
My ultimate desire is to get matched up with a woman about 20 years younger than myself. Am I a pig?
I would qualify this as you have a specific age-related preference. I see nothing wrong with this - however, you need to really be bringing 'something' to the table in order to attract the age group you prefer. I agree with cp30 and Mari3434, I personally wouldn't be comfortable dating a man 20 years older than myself.

letsdolunch wrote :
I feel younger though. My ideal age in a woman is about 28 to 35 years old. I find that age level fun and adventurous in a woman.
I understand feeling younger - however it does not make you younger. And unfortunately, you will not be able to make younger women view you as behaving younger than your age, unless you (a) act the fool - not recommended or (b) actively live your life in such a way that when you are asked your age, people look at you in surprise and exclaim that they believed you to be much younger.
Last edited by meri75; April 19,2010 at 4:15am.
 
  Reply With Quote
telleryouloveher is offline telleryouloveher Post #8  April 18,2010, 5:59am
telleryoulove…'s Avatar

Newbie

Joined: Apr 2010

Southwest Michigan

Posts: 5

See profile

I have figured out what it is for me anyway.... The last time I was single I was 31, so naturally that is how old I feel now. It could be why I am attracted to younger men also. I am 55 now. But that is only a number...right?
 
  Reply With Quote
billyb is offline billyb Post #9  April 20,2010, 8:18pm
billyb's Avatar

actually learning a lot here from reading posts

Newbie

Joined: Apr 2010

Posts: 13

See profile

letsdolunch wrote :
I'm fresh to the dating seen after 18 years. But, I gotta get real and start looking around and check out some of the fine looking ladies that I regularly see at work.

By the way I sell senior insurance products such as Medicare Advantage or Final Expenses Insurance Policies. I do well financially.

My ultimate desire is to get matched up with a woman about 20 years younger than myself. Am I a pig?

I just turned 50 and it took me a little while to fully accept that I'm already fifty and freaking qualified to join AARP.

I feel younger though. My ideal age in a woman is about 28 to 35 years old. I find that age level fun and adventurous in a woman.


i think the young women might think your a dirty old man rather than a pig. and it does not really matter what you want. the question is whether a young woman wants you. make sure you keep mentioning that you do well financially to the gold digger. who knows. you'll both get what you want.
 
  Reply With Quote
liquid_steel is offline liquid_steel Post #10  August 29,2010, 10:44pm

Friendly banter welcome...

Pacesetter

Joined: Jun 2010

Posts: 254

See profile

No, there's certainly nothing wrong with wanting a woman 20 years your junior...provided she, too, strongly prefers someone two-decades older than herself. If per chance (quite slim) you DO meet a woman like that, ask her about her relationship with her father (you may discover some unresolved problems there). Also, inquire about her financial skills (unless you don't mind supporting her as one would a dependent child).

You may also wish to investigate why you wish to make your search so terribly complicated and difficult (by striving for such slim odds). Setting a nearly impossible goal is one way to ensure failure--or to avoid a truly vibrant relationship based on healthy compatibilities.

PS Are you SURE you want a girl 20 years younger who finds your financial status more attractive than you? If so, hire a REALLY good attorney (smile).
 
  Reply With Quote
Reply
  • Page 1 of 2
  • 1
  • 2


« Dream job | Career | Finding a job is just like dating... »
Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Similar Topics
Topic Topic Starter Board Replies Last Post
Too Focused on Finding a Mate? Get Out of the Dating Doldrums DennisWisconsin Dating 10 September 29,2009 1:08pm
The top 50 signs of a bad mate SabineDeWinter Intelligent Conversation 6 September 4,2009 6:25pm
My Soul Mate: Is He Out There? springtime Dating 7 July 18,2009 8:06pm

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“The tennis ball story is a good analogy, RD, and that's how I interpret "gut feeling" -- a conclusion/sense of something that's a thought, not a feeling; though it will have feelings associated with ... ” –  Sassafras54

Join the “Is Your Gut Leading - or Misleading You?” discussion

“Agree. Given where you are emotionally, I would cease all communication with Mr. Trade Show. You're vulnerable. He's up for a challenge. It's playing with fire. You'll be in a bad place in the ... ” –  emma_hazards

Join the “Received lovely email from former poofer” discussion

“How about phone calls, then?” –  barbarella_42

Join the “Advice on Response time” discussion

“I have never spoken to a woman like he has. Yeah, I have never spoken to a woman like that either. It is a hard call to whether he is just as jerk, or whether he is a player. Both are feasible ... ” –  ScottK

Join the “So, men. Explain this to me, please!” discussion

“I have come to this same conclusion. Thank you.” –  bibittyboo

Join the “Confused about date #2” discussion

“Harmonygirl, I do not usually make up my mind on blanket situations but instead would examine each one on it's own merits, so I cannot answer your question. However, just in the going about of daily ... ” –  Ephemera

Join the “Atheism, Religion and Tolerance” discussion

“I was ok until the kiss on the cheek part....That doesn't sound like your defenses were up at all... It's one thing for a guy to walk up and start with the cheesy lines....But as soon as I say, "no ... ” –  Ingytravel

Join the “So this guy walks into a bar . . .” discussion

“ No. It is not wise. You have to throw all your eggs into one basket for love to work at all. Relationships are inherently riskier than careers. You can't use the same rules. You might lose ... ” –  harnomygirl

Join the “Becoming Exclusive” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 12:43pm.

Discussion Boards Archive

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0