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I was having a discussion today and this topic came up. I don't consider success a level but a journey.
- November 20th, 2009, 10:02 pm
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That's the best attitude to have!

By the time I was 26, I had the perfect job. Was I successful? Sure people knew my name and requested me by the time I was 27. I was on top of the world and working outside most of the time.

By the time I hit 35, I got a major promotion to another Dept. Better job, better hours, plus now I was in charge of the Dept. I had been training ten years for this opportunity.

At 36, I requested a transfer out of the Suburbs to a City. It was the busiest, most prestigious Dept that came with a large semi-private cubicle. I had part of a window too!

The first few months were a disorganized killer stress. Things were out of hand and not as they were promised to me.

So I wrote a memo to the boss of the VP in charge. Got a meeting with the Big Woman. Next had a meeting with the new VP in charge (my letter helped put the old VP in jail for stealing.)

Suddenly my immediate supervisor (she was a flunky for the old VP) was fired. I was free to do what I had been hired to do. Requested and got another transfer in the same city to create a whole new Dept. Now I had my own OFFICE! Yeah.

I had arrived. Was a Master at what I was doing. It wasn't easy work but I laid down the foundation.

After that I was in demand. Other Depts wanted to hire me.
I was going on job interviews before work, at lunchtime and after work. But I was perfectly happy where I was!

Where I worked I got to eat lunch with former WW2 Vets.
It was great and I found a mentor (he was familiar with my job and helped show me some procedures.) I became a public speaker and representative of that Dept.

There. I knew it in my heart and wherever I went. I was a success. The "trains" ran on time, I had my daily to do list, my weekly agenda with me and my index card of the day (transferred from my at home to do list.)

My memory was sharp, I could find any piece of paper in a few seconds, saved $, time and increased productivity 38%.

Besides, I helped change the life of many people who never would have had the opportunity to better their lives. And in the end, isn't that what life is about? Helping others?
- November 20th, 2009, 11:16 pm
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I think I'll consider myself "successful" once I fill in the last piece of my life puzzle. I've found the right journeys for myself in so many areas of my life...fitness, relationships, spiritual, hobbies...the only part that feels "off" is my career.

I'd like to work in an industry where I can really care about my input. What I do now is important and helps people, but I don't feel the same drive that I do in other areas of my life. My loves are inter-cultural relations/linguistics and the culinary arts. I'm way outside of those two right now, but I hope one day I'll find a way into one of those fields.
- December 29th, 2009, 09:45 pm
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Every time I make a positive difference in the life of one of my students, I consider myself successful.

If they actually pass English, then I consider myself blessed!
- January 10th, 2010, 05:41 pm
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Psycue wrote :
I was having a discussion today and this topic came up. I don't consider success a level but a journey.
Interesting that you use the word "level." If you level off, that seems to me that your ambition to go forward has died.

There are certain things that I would consider "achievements." These would be meeting specific goals in life. Once a goal has been accomplished, it is in the past. It becomes a part of a larger pattern of achievements, which can drive you forward to other things.

Being successful is a pattern of ongoing goals and achievements that doesn’t end until you die. Just my opinion. *grin*
- January 10th, 2010, 06:05 pm
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