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I practiced martial arts for 17 years... but it is not nearly as effective as my smile... which I've been practicing for 51 years...
You sound quite manly to me.
(But I prefer Ming's suggestion of a tongue lashing rather than spanking.)
- November 1st, 2009, 01:01 pm
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Comedian wrote :
You sound quite manly to me.
(But I prefer Ming's suggestion of a tongue lashing rather than spanking.)
You are naughty!
- November 1st, 2009, 01:13 pm
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It's funny-nobody ever asks me for a tongue lashing!
I wonder why.

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You sound quite manly to me.
(But I prefer Ming's suggestion of a tongue lashing rather than spanking.)
- November 3rd, 2009, 08:39 pm
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You are naughty!
Yes I am naughty!
However I want to return to the relationship test thread.
I read once that women want unconditional love, and men want unconditional respect.
Is that true?
- November 4th, 2009, 12:40 pm
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Comedian wrote :
Yes I am naughty!
However I want to return to the relationship test thread.
I read once that women want unconditional love, and men want unconditional respect.
Is that true?
I don't know about unconditional. I've also heard that men and women want both, but men value being respected a bit more and women value being loved more.
- November 4th, 2009, 04:46 pm
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chawks64 wrote :
I don't know about unconditional. I've also heard that men and women want both, but men value being respected a bit more and women value being loved more.
Perhaps men find more success getting respected, and women find more success getting loved? Might as well value what you can get!
- November 5th, 2009, 09:13 am
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Or maybe it's all just about chemistry and hormones...

Oxytocin (aka the "Love hormone"- cuddling, affection, social recognition, long term bonding, etc ) needs estrogen to work, so it's effect is much more powerful in women.
- November 5th, 2009, 09:57 am
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Or maybe it's all just about chemistry and hormones...

Oxytocin (aka the "Love hormone"- cuddling, affection, social recognition, long term bonding, etc ) needs estrogen to work, so it's effect is much more powerful in women.
So that's what keeps us from getting banged in the head with a frying pan when we move in for a kiss!
- November 5th, 2009, 11:31 am
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Who knows... maybe it also explains alot of the appeal of "younger women" (more estrogen = more oxytocin = more affectionate)?
- November 5th, 2009, 12:03 pm
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Who knows... maybe it also explains alot of the appeal of "younger women" (more estrogen = more oxytocin = more affectionate)?
This hormone combination only works in the female. It makes her feel like bonding. It doesn't affect the way men feel toward them.
Unless you are talking pheromones?
Women with high levels of oxytocin are breastfeeding. I know men are fascinated with mammary glands, but this is not the usual way.
- November 6th, 2009, 09:15 am
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