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I haven't given up; per se.

I've only been in love once. Not even been close other than that one time. I used to wonder if I was "broken" because everyone else dives in and out of love and even when I tried to, I couldn't fall. Affection, caring, yes, even love, but not IN love. And then one day I did. And it was so hard to give up on it. So some days; I wonder if I'll be brave enough to fall again. I'm not good at falling in the first place. :|
- November 3rd, 2009, 09:49 pm
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Hi Pretty Lady..

Take this for what you will but...I am a HUGE believer in loving yourself first and then let he/she who is worthy pick up on that energy and act on it. You already know the love you feel from your son. That is a bond i will never know. So you already know you can love and feel love. The last piece of the puzzle is finding/waiting/ knowing /accepting the one who will nourish and support you and your son. IMHO :-)
- November 3rd, 2009, 10:06 pm
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curious_girl wrote :
How do you keep beleiving in true love? What makes you keep trying?
I don't need to believe. Faith is for something you aren't sure exists. I have felt love, so I know true love exists in the world. I don't believe it is some kind of destiny thing that there is one person who is your perfect match, your other half.

We just have to keep our hearts open for when someone comes along that will first make it flutter, and if they are a good match, then they will eventually find a permanent place there.
- November 3rd, 2009, 10:18 pm
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curious_girl wrote :
This belongs on one of the boring and over dramatic (in a bad way lol) main boards. But I want to hear from you so I'm posting it here.

How do you keep beleiving in true love? What makes you keep trying?
Sometimes I don't freakin know. I just think that true love is a great concept. I think that maybe a person can find it when they're not trying.

I don't want to give up on it, or over think it. That's when you get into trouble.

True love, yeah....cool. I'll take it, but I'm not gonna obsess about it.

THX just wants to have fun.........
- November 4th, 2009, 03:53 pm
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