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Hi folks - I'm a member on a dating site where you get to check the boxes to indicate which races you will date - and everyone gets to see your choice. I generally close out anyone who selects specific races and excludes others, on the premise that this indicates some kind of racism. I'm wondering if I'm being too judgemental?





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- December 2nd, 2008, 08:53 am
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Hi Cindy, I do not think that you are being to judgemental. If they are excluding others races then that does mean they are racial they just might want to date their own. Which that is ok to eachs own. We are just opened minded more than others.
- December 2nd, 2008, 05:53 pm
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I don't think you are being judgemental. I have done the same thing except I closed out matches that didn't include my race as one of the choices. I did this because why try to initiate contact with someone when they aren't attracted to my race in the first place? That may sound harsh, but I would rather spend my time contacting someone where that doesn't seem to be an issue.
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