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Guys, have a question? I've gone through guided communication and sent an email or two and exchanged #'s. This guy called me twice in one day-both times I missed his call b/c I was still at work and then I had gone out after work and got home late, so I figured I'd just return his call the next day. When I got home that night, he had also left me 2 emails! The next day, I was visiting a friend and I had looked at my phone and he had left me yet another message. Now, I am definitely not calling him b/c I am so put off/creeped out by his behavior. I have never even met him and it feels like he's stalking me. Why is he calling me so much and not giving me a chance to get back to him?
- September 12th, 2009, 11:25 pm
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In a nutshell, it's because-
a. you've impressed him
b. you're one out of 50 that he's tried to contact that actually contacted back
c.he's not a game player and just wants to go to the next step.
d.he's a wierdo, creep, and obsessed.
You can ass-u-me the negative and miss out on a possible keeper. If he's creepy/needy, you'll know by the first conversation, and certainly by the first meeting. Just keep the conversation under control, and if you plan to meet, meet in a public place, and go dutch to avoid the obligation. Then make your judgement call.
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- September 13th, 2009, 02:35 pm
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So he's interested and persistent. Not answering is rude and will just leave you (and him) wondering.
Don't judge, communicate
- October 14th, 2009, 11:43 pm
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I would say give him a chance to see what is up. But if he keeps it up then get out. I will never forget the biggest red flag I had with my ex fiance of 4 years, the worst most abusive relationship of my life, I called him on my way home from work one night and he said, "why do you always work late on Thursdays? I find this very suspiscous." I thought to myself what the hell that is crazy, but over time these questions became normal and I didn't think anything of them - next thing you know I am in a VERY bad situation. It could be okay, just be careful.
- October 16th, 2009, 09:34 pm
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