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Thanks. New at the abbreviations being used.

.... Okay doesn't really matter anymore but I do not like to intentionally hurt anyone and it bothers me if I do. Had a situation happen not too long ago with a client that I had known for over a year. Younger than me and one night too much to drink became something else that I really didn't want it to be. Not ready for a relationship asked if we could keep it just a sexual one. Seems I might of hurt my friend and everything became different after that. I just really thought a guy would like that scenario without taking into consideration that just maybe there were feelings involved..... My bad.
Good to hear the "real world" specifics behind the question. Sounds like we might be making this too complicated.

Try to forget the gender assumptions for a moment, and just ask yourself how you'd feel if the situation was reversed. You've just slept with a guy you really like, but afterwards he gives you the speech about "I'm not ready for a relationship, and could we just keep it a sexual one?". How would you feel about that?

Men may approach sex differently than women. But it doesn't necessarily mean they don't have other feelings or expectations as well.

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