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I have just broke up with my ex about a week ago. I am filing for seperation as soon as I get a lawyer. I want to move but I want tio have sex. With my ex I hadn't had sex in at least 3 and a half years. Is it too soon to be feeling this and is it normal after getting out of a bad situation.
- November 7th, 2009, 08:00 am
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johnken1 wrote :
I have just broke up with my ex about a week ago. I am filing for seperation as soon as I get a lawyer. I want to move but I want tio have sex. With my ex I hadn't had sex in at least 3 and a half years. Is it too soon to be feeling this and is it normal after getting out of a bad situation.
I would love to give you advice but I am still trying to get past you and your ex haven't had sex for three and a half years and you actually think you broke up last week.
- November 7th, 2009, 10:48 am
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Yeah what she said.
I say ....Hire a professional
I only say that because I wouldn't want to be that woman who you will meet soon and say anything to.... just to " get some " At least the professional doesn't care.
- November 7th, 2009, 10:56 am
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It is always normal to want to have sex! We're wired that way. Sounds like your body is ready to move on! Whether you act on that or not is up to you. If you're emotionally still tied to the ex, you might want to stick to just-for-fun sex for the time being.
- November 7th, 2009, 10:59 am
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I would love to give you advice but I am still trying to get past you and your ex haven't had sex for three and a half years and you actually think you broke up last week.
Good catch there, I read the original post and I didn't realize about it until you pointed it out!

Yep...in any case, wanting sex too soon definitely will kill any potential dates.
- November 7th, 2009, 11:03 am
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hogrally wrote :
Yeah what she said.
I say ....Hire a professional
I only say that because I wouldn't want to be that woman who you will meet soon and say anything to.... just to " get some " At least the professional doesn't care.
A prostitute ?
- November 7th, 2009, 11:07 am
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hogrally wrote :
Yeah what she said.
I say ....Hire a professional
I only say that because I wouldn't want to be that woman who you will meet soon and say anything to.... just to " get some " At least the professional doesn't care.
So I am reading this thinking you mean a shrink, then I read on and think they usually don't have sex with their clients. Then light bulb, a hooker. Yeah good idea.
- November 7th, 2009, 11:23 am
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PY_2 wrote :
Good catch there, I read the original post and I didn't realize about it until you pointed it out!

Yep...in any case, wanting sex too soon definitely will kill any potential dates.
Exactly, if the OPs point was is it too soon for a relationship the answer is YES! I normally don't use caps for emphasis. By all means go get you some, I think the hooker idea is spot on, but don't think you are in any shape for a long term relationship. That wouldn't be fair on either of you.
- November 7th, 2009, 11:27 am
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Does anyone else think the OP has already booked a flight to Vegas?
- November 7th, 2009, 12:25 pm
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Does anyone else think the OP has already booked a flight to Vegas?
That would explain why he isn't responding to our sage advice.
- November 7th, 2009, 12:29 pm
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