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Fetish VS Kinks

What differentiates between the two? Licking boots (which I've never done btw..don't judge!)....people can consider that a boot fetish..which is what a kinky person would like.

If a partner wants to smear maple syrup over you and enjoy you like a hot'n delicious pancake, does he/she has a maple syrup fetish, or just plain kinky?

I heard that the distinction is that with kink...the activity, props or whatever, enhances the whole experience.

Fetish: The object replaces the pleasure of s-e-x itself.

Agree? Disagree? Anybody want couple shots of Patron?

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- November 6th, 2009, 09:03 pm
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kink
–noun
1.a twist or curl, as in a thread, rope, wire, or hair, caused by its doubling or bending upon itself.
2.a muscular stiffness or soreness, as in the neck or back.
3.a flaw or imperfection likely to hinder the successful operation of something, as a machine or plan: There are still a few kinks to be worked out of the plan before we start production.
4.a mental twist; notion; whim or crotchet.
5.Slang.
a.bizarre or unconventional sexual preferences or behavior.
b.a person characterized by such preferences or behavior.

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fet⋅ish
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1.an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.
2.any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.
3.Psychology. any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
- November 6th, 2009, 09:12 pm
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Yikes!

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- November 6th, 2009, 09:14 pm
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I'm sure glad this group has a subject matter expert!
- November 6th, 2009, 09:18 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
I'm sure glad this group has a subject matter expert!
yeah!

who would that be?
- November 6th, 2009, 09:23 pm
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scarlet13 wrote :
yeah!

who would that be?
Pretty and modest.

Marry me.
- November 6th, 2009, 09:38 pm
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I've always heard, a kink uses a feather, a pervert, a whole chicken!
I'm not sure, I've never used either.
- November 6th, 2009, 10:06 pm
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jtkdp wrote :
I've always heard, a kink uses a feather, a pervert, a whole chicken!
I'm not sure, I've never used either.
You lie!
- November 6th, 2009, 11:51 pm
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PY_2 wrote :
You lie!
I never said I was kink or fetish free...
But I am poultry free!
- November 7th, 2009, 07:04 am
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