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we all do it. don't lie.

so, let's discuss how we fantasize when we take ourselves out on a date, because i think it's different for women and men.

when was your earliest memory of realizing that it felt good down there?

anyone with a upbringing that restricted self love and how that affected you?

have at it!
- November 6th, 2009, 08:08 pm
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I have mentioned this before but...
Reading trashy romance novels was how I started out.
I learned there is alot of power in the written word and visualization. And yes...I admitt I use to judge a book by its cover....
- November 6th, 2009, 08:31 pm
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i'm interested in what other women fantasize about because i suspect it has more of a storyline than men's fantasies.

for instance, if i'm thinking about Jay Baruchel, i have to come up with a believable instance of where we meet and everything else on, LOL.

when i find out that the subject of a fantasy has a SO in RL it ruins it for me.
- November 6th, 2009, 08:40 pm
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YouTube - terminator (romantic scene)

This still does it for me everytime...
- November 6th, 2009, 08:59 pm
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A personal handjob while fantasizing about a woman is one thing, but I wouldn't fantasize about "doing myself" unless I had snorted a shovel full of coke.
- November 7th, 2009, 11:26 am
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Dugl wrote :
A personal handjob while fantasizing about a woman is one thing, but I wouldn't fantasize about "doing myself" unless I had snorted a shovel full of coke.
you misunderstood the post.

who/what/when do you fantasize about when you do for yourself?
- November 7th, 2009, 05:43 pm
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scarlet13 wrote :
i'm interested in what other women fantasize about because i suspect it has more of a storyline than men's fantasies.
Now this is something I'm not going to share. It's a private little world I have. But! Yes, there's a lot of story involved, it's not just the critical few minutes. That would be interesting, to see if there's a gender difference on this!
- November 7th, 2009, 10:55 pm
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scarlet13 wrote :
you misunderstood the post.

who/what/when do you fantasize about when you do for yourself?
Oh....so you can steal my fantasy ?...clever, but I don't think so.

(and stop picking on me because my comprehension skills suck)
- November 8th, 2009, 06:28 am
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Dugl wrote :
Oh....so you can steal my fantasy ?...clever, but I don't think so.

(and stop picking on me because my comprehension skills suck)
I have my own very elaborate fantasies, lol.

C'mon, it was funny that you thought I was asking if you fantasize about yourself when you masturbate.
- November 8th, 2009, 09:54 am
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Dugl wrote :
A personal handjob while fantasizing about a woman is one thing, but I wouldn't fantasize about "doing myself" unless I had snorted a shovel full of coke.
When you have this party, I'd really like an invite.


This thread reminds me of an episode of Two and half men. Charlie Sheen's character is reminscing of a hot woman he was once with and says he uses memories of it as "Lighter fuel when he's barbequeing alone".

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