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At a party I once heard a statement that has stayed with me since I've heard it, and I'm wondering what other think about it. The statement was this: "Any woman can get sex at anytime if she really wants it, because there will always be a man willing to have sex with her even if he would be unwilling to get involved in a relationship. But the same isn't true for men. Any man can't always get sex at anytime if he really wants it." Does everyone agree with this? If yes, why so? And if the statement is true, what makes it true? Aren't there women out there who may want to have sex but can find no one willing?
- May 15th, 2009, 04:56 pm
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A guy friend of mine states this all the time word by word. I have been trying to explain to him that it is not the case but he doesn't believe it. I would love to have sex every day if I could but unfortunately it ain't happening and it's driving me nuts. So according to my experience the statement isn't true at all.
- May 16th, 2009, 06:30 am
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[quote=CreolePrincess;607629]At a party I once heard a statement that has stayed with me since I've heard it, and I'm wondering what other think about it. The statement was this: "Any woman can get sex at anytime if she really wants it, because there will always be a man willing to have sex with her even if he would be unwilling to get involved in a relationship. But the same isn't true for men. Any man can't always get sex at anytime if he really wants it." Does everyone agree with this?

I agree with that.

If yes, why so?

Because it's true.

And if the statement is true, what makes it true?

A lot (most?) more men than women have no problem with casual sex. Most women won't do it because of the percieved (real or imagined) stigma that goes along with promiscuity.

Aren't there women out there who may want to have sex but can find no one willing?


Maybe there are. They must not be looking very hard.
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I agree. No matter what the woman looks like; she can get someone to throw her a bone. I've seen some, erm, really unattractive women take home some very attractive men; just for the nookie. 'Course it was a few drinks past tipsy but she still got some.

Women just have to put out those "give it to me" vibes and if she's out in public (sometimes just w friends at someone's house) there will be a man willing if he catches those vibes.
- May 16th, 2009, 09:10 pm
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I agree with tweet37
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I have turned it down only a few times (afraid of diseases or a nutcase)
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There are over 100,000 registered users on EHa, how many would be
willing to End their day spell with casual sex? The problem is
Communicating it and maintaining their dignity.

If a woman posted that she had an itch and need someone to scratch it. I bet someone would be willing to. The problem is how many people would look down on her at the same time wishing that someone was scratching their itch.
- May 17th, 2009, 02:11 pm
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GG,
Any woman can get sex at anytime if she really wants it, because there will always be a man willing to have sex with her even if he would be unwilling to get involved in a relationship.
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Any man can get sex at anytime if he really wants it, because there will always be a woman willing to have sex with him even if she would be unwilling to get involved in a relationship
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- May 18th, 2009, 03:37 pm
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Ladies who want some need only add this phrase to their repertoire:

"Let's get a room."
- May 22nd, 2009, 08:32 pm
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timeless2 wrote :
GG,
Any woman can get sex at anytime if she really wants it, because there will always be a man willing to have sex with her even if he would be unwilling to get involved in a relationship.
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Any man can get sex at anytime if he really wants it, because there will always be a woman willing to have sex with him even if she would be unwilling to get involved in a relationship
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First part is true...most any woman can get some anytime she wants. Second part isn't. Unless he wants to pay for it, most men have had many nights where they've tried to find some but come up empty.
- May 23rd, 2009, 07:44 pm
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My very good friend D (female) said this in college "a woman can get se x anytime she wants it."

I'll believe her. That's a no brainer. Almost any woman no matter how...ugg, scary ugly she is, can get sex. She just has to wink at a few guys...even if she has to wait till 1am...

Whatever woman says this is not true doesn't understand men or is in denial. Here's an experiment ladies...before you go out to a bar/nightclub next time (you said you want some eh?) gently touch yourself down there.

Then dab yourself on your cheek and neck. Now go out with your natural woman perfume on. Odds are you will have a man or two hang around you that night for some play.

Can any man have se x whenever he want's it? Duh. There would be 100 billion humans on the planet if that was true! A man has to do a lot more work, expend more $ and time than just going out one night to a bar/nightclub.
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It's so extremely easy for a woman to get sex. The women that say it is difficult are either not trying hard enough or they have standards that aren't flexible. It's absolutely fine to have standards, but don't complain that you can't get sex, because you can.

I also think it's not hard to get a really good-looking guy to have sex with you. Even if you aren't a super-model, exuding confidence will almost always do the trick. Of course, don't expect them to stick around in the morning...you were just wanting sex, right?
- June 8th, 2009, 06:58 pm
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