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I can't believe I am asking this question, but I can only remember being with one girl under the age of 20 who had an orgasm during sex. Most would say they enjoyed it, but I know now they didn't have an orgasm. Now that I have a little age on me the women I am with seem to orgasm quite easily and usually 2 or 3 times.


Is it learned from experience and experimentation or do women feel less inhibited when they are a little older?


Maybe I've answered my own question.
- April 25th, 2009, 06:54 am
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sc4me, wrote :

I can't believe I am asking this question, but I can only remember being with one girl under the age of 20 who had an orgasm during sex. Most would say they enjoyed it, but I know now they didn't have an orgasm. Now that I have a little age on me the women I am with seem to orgasm quite easily and usually 2 or 3 times.


Is it learned from experience and experimentation or do women feel less inhibited when they are a little older?


Maybe I've answered my own question.
Is it learned from experience and experimentation or do women feel less inhibited when they are a little older?

Yes!





They are also moving into the sexual prime (as we zoom away from ours )
- April 25th, 2009, 08:40 am
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I think as a woman, as I became more comfortable with 'me'and being myself- it was easier to relax and enjoy and not worry about 'what is he thinking, did I do that right? how do I compare?' etc.


I divorced at 32 and didn't even date for a good 8-10 yrs afterwards, concentrating on raising my child, working and making a homealone. My Ex had really done a job on my self image and confidence, I was afraid to be hurt and kept men at arm's length. An old college boyfriend looked me upand tracked me down,which wasa great boost to my bruised ego. Because we HAD had a good relationship, and broke up mostly to me going away to a different college, we started dating again. it was easy to start dating with someone I already knew and trusted, even though we hadn't spoken for over a decade. We didn't stay together long, but he 'broke the ice' so to speak and after him, I dated a few different guys. I was not intimate with all - but I was more comfortable, not only with myself, but in clearly communicating how far I was and wasn't willing to go, with whom, why, &what Iwanted fromrelationships, etc. I had a 2yr relationahip with someone and we discussed marriage. The relationship didn't work out, but I have to say that the sexual side of it was amazing for both of us. Maturity, on ALL levels, can have wonderful effects!








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I think women feel less inhibited as they get older. I was married for 33 years and my ex would never wait for me, he would get irritated and sigh with the result that I froze, felt pressured and couldn't do it. Have been divorced for 7 years now and have had no problems with that since although I do feel a bit faint after no. 8
- April 26th, 2009, 04:37 am
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20's & 30's ?? Try 30's & 40's. The quality today, at 42, doesn't even compare to 22. Is it physical or mental?? Don't know, Dont care! Who am I to question the "O" gods. I will just go with the flow and enjoy this wonderful gift. It is a beautiful thing!
- April 26th, 2009, 10:36 am
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Mokkesofie wrote :


I think women feel less inhibited as they get older. I was married for 33 years and my ex would never wait for me, he would get irritated and sigh with the result that I froze, felt pressured and couldn't do it. Have been divorced for 7 years now and have had no problems with that since although I do feel a bit faint after no. 8


Now that is just downright UNFAIR.
- April 26th, 2009, 10:51 am
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20's & 30's ?? Try 30's & 40's. The quality today, at 42, doesn't even compare to 22. Is it physical or mental?? Don't know, Dont care! Who am I to question the "O" gods.
LOL!!!
- April 27th, 2009, 01:27 pm
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For me it has to do with the quality of the partner. Let's face it, men learn as they get older too, what works on women and what doesn't. Sure, there's a component of reducing your inhibitions with age, but really, at least for me, a lot of it was just being with a man who 1. knew what he was doing and 2. cared enough to take the time to find out what turned me on.
- April 27th, 2009, 07:07 pm
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sc4me, wrote :

I can't believe I am asking this question, but I can only remember being with one girl under the age of 20 who had an orgasm during sex. Most would say they enjoyed it, but I know now they didn't have an orgasm. Now that I have a little age on me the women I am with seem to orgasm quite easily and usually 2 or 3 times.


Is it learned from experience and experimentation or do women feel less inhibited when they are a little older?


Maybe I've answered my own question.
If they only knew my key preassure points (when giving me a massage on my back) - then the answer to your question would be yes! Oh Yes! (40 and counting)
- May 1st, 2009, 06:20 pm
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For me it has to do with the quality of the partner. Let's face it, men learn as they get older too, what works on women and what doesn't. Sure, there's a component of reducing your inhibitions with age, but really, at least for me, a lot of it was just being with a man who 1. knew what he was doing and 2. cared enough to take the time to find out what turned me on.
Hmmm.... interesting answer and probably correct. When I was in my late teens I was less inhibited, more curious and willing to experiment. But then I got married. LOL


No, seriously, I absolutely adore the female body. (Not just anybodys mind you, but someone I'm really into) and will spend hours exploring to find the right touch, the right places and the right pace. I was really into this girl years ago, but she cowered under the covers. As a joke, I went and got a flashlight and put my head under the covers. She didn't think it was funny or cute. Oh well.


Anyway, I know I'm "as good once as I ever was" the key word being "once" so I want to make it last. If she has 10 orgasms to my one, that in itself gives me pleasure.


I'm not a womanizer, but man I sure do love you gals. That's why I like to feel those butterflies, anticipation, waiting, flirting, standing close together that you feel the "current" passing between you. I reserve that for someone special.
- May 2nd, 2009, 11:13 am
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