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I'm a wood floor! lmao! No hairAT ALLdown there.


Also instead of shaving I like waxing better. I do the brazilian wax.


I didn't start doing it for any guy, just for myself. I'm not a big fan of hair down there on myself but have no objections to a guy that keeps his extremely well trimmed and groomed.
- May 3rd, 2009, 09:29 am
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Interesting topic. Maybe it's part of desire for being eternally young that we shave- male or female, facial or genetal; if we shave we look younger. Someone needs to google what % shave facially, genitally in US, other nations.


Talking about sex and other cultures; just attended a party hosted by a woman of middle eastern (Algerian) background; and she had as a guest (to this mostly woman party) a woman belly dancer. It got me thinking- why is belly dancing, originally arabic, pre-islamic, where the woman is VERY exposed and exotic, followed by the culture of hiding, covering up, and generally treating women so second class? And the women of the party were so excited about this belly dancer; all of them got up and started dancing with her -except my girlfriend; who later accused me of "gawking". Duh...isn't that the idea? I tried to explain that she was a beaurtiful entertainer, but to no avail...harsh words and treatment followed that eve.


Your opinions and suggestions would be appreciated!
- May 3rd, 2009, 01:09 pm
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The thing is, I shave it all because I like feeling smooth down there. Most of the guys that I have been with don't have a problem with that. However, there were 2 guys who wanted some hair on my p*ssy because they felt weird going down on a bald one.

I wasn't annoyed or angry when I heard that. We compromised - I still shave most of it off for myself while I leave a cute little patch of hair for the guy. It was a win-win situation for us so it's all good

If the guy can't be thankful for one small patch but want a totally hairy one, I really can't help him there nor would I do it for him.

As for my partner, it doesn't matter if he is au naturel, trimmed, shaved or waxed. I have learned to adjust myself to different settings
- May 15th, 2009, 01:56 am
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I agree what if a guy wants a woman completely bald down there, that something is turning him on in the "kiddie realm". You know, I would have to have a conversation with this guy and inquire just how young of a girl he has ever dated. But in the end, it needs to be what you're comfortable with. It's your body, and he should respect that. If he breaks up with you for something as shallow as that, I think that was just his way of chickening out for something much bigger....unless, of course, he's just overall a shallow shell of a person, in which case, you're better without him anyway.
- May 15th, 2009, 05:06 pm
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funny!!
- June 9th, 2009, 10:28 pm
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I have been with gals who were totally shaved, and no trimming at all. It is a turn off if a woman has razor cuts down there, as can be a turn off to be a tangled mess down there. I feel that both parties must be in this together, working together, not one dictating to the other how things are going to be. If a woman wants a particular way for me to be, she needs to let her wishes be known.
- June 13th, 2009, 12:35 am
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And the worst was he said its just not natural to have hair there!!! I couldn't argue with that because it made no sense.

The pubic hair on men and women acts a dry lubricant during face-to-face intercourse. It also is visual signal of sexual maturity.
- June 13th, 2009, 08:21 pm
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TRY THIS;
When you're both nude and you've had good loving, and the topic comes up; walk to the bathroom, grab a shaver, some shaving lotion, and a smile....but once [s]he starts to shave you, you remind him/her that it's your turn next....
- June 14th, 2009, 05:34 pm
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BobinFla wrote :
I feel that both parties must be in this together, working together, not one dictating to the other how things are going to be.
I disagree. Not that I'm into "dictating" but...

I will most certainly dictate "how things are going to be" on my body. I like my skin silky-smooth. Sometimes, a little 'accent' hair such as a triangle or "landing strip" is okay when I decide I want one. This is non-negotiable.

Any guy who would even want to negotiate, on this, is not the guy for me. Any guy who doesn't like silky smooth skin (and I mean really like - not just simply tolerate) is not the guy for me.
- June 15th, 2009, 04:32 pm
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sheera007 wrote :
I disagree. Not that I'm into "dictating" but...

I will most certainly dictate "how things are going to be" on my body. I like my skin silky-smooth. Sometimes, a little 'accent' hair such as a triangle or "landing strip" is okay when I decide I want one. This is non-negotiable.

Any guy who would even want to negotiate, on this, is not the guy for me. Any guy who doesn't like silky smooth skin (and I mean really like - not just simply tolerate) is not the guy for me.
You are enforcing what I said. You are the one that dictates how your body is going to be, I dictate how my body is going to be, neither of us have the right to dictate how the other's body is going to be.

It takes two of us to make love, and if we make changes for the other, it should be in working together, not because we were told to do it.
- June 15th, 2009, 10:52 pm
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