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I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22. And I must confess that my first time was a one-night stand as it were. Oh, she was a friend of mine and there was some chemistry, but one night unexpectedly one thing lead to another and I boldly went where many men have gone before.

However, the first time I really had sex with someone I loved was magical. I'm not kidding. You can be as animalistic and hedonistic as you want to, but without love or romance mixed with sex it just doesn't do anything for me. I love oral (giving and receiving) and I'm up for anything sexually. I can do kinky and have done, but it's got to be with someone that I have strong feelings for otherwise it's a no-go. Makes sense?
- March 1st, 2009, 09:04 am
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Perfect sense Mike. Love and Passion go hand in hand. The passion is what makes it good.
- March 1st, 2009, 09:26 am
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Although 22 is later than average for a person to lose their virginity, it's not that late. There are people who lose their virginity much later than that. Consider yourself lucky. Some of us are still waiting.
- March 3rd, 2009, 06:21 pm
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I don't consider you late at all, perhaps if you compare yourself to teenagers who are sexually active. I'm a male in my 40's and still a virgin. I agree with you though, I would think with someone you love and trust there is more of a bond which heightens the sexual feelings.
- March 13th, 2009, 01:26 pm
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I'm 29 and a virgin. I'm quite ashamed of it, actually. I want it gone more than anything. But, getting back on topic here, I'm sure there are tons of late bloomers out there, we just don't know about them, that's all.
- April 10th, 2009, 09:46 pm
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I think it sucks that late bloomers often feel embarassed or ashamed. It used to be that society frowned upon people who couldn't keep their pants up, or even had sex before marriage. But now it's considered wrong or at least odd if you don't have sex before you're 20. I mean if you had to choose, who would you rather be?


A) A 15 year-old pregnant girl


B) A 20 year-old man-ho with recurring STD's


C) A 25 year-old who's HIV positive


D) A 30 year-old virgin


If you're sick of being a virgin and want to get laid for the sake of losing your virginity, knock yourself out. But you'll probably be disappointed.


Instead, try to focus on finding love, because with that will come passion, desire, and hot monkey-sex. It's like a fortune from a fortune cookie: "Find love and sex will follow."
- April 13th, 2009, 11:46 pm
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BellaDonna hit it on the nail head. Why take chances of catching something that will be with you for life just so you can lose your virginity. Sex is definitely better when you truly have feelings for the other person. Once you find the right person and have developed trust in them then you can explore all forms of sex including kinky if that is you thing.
- April 17th, 2009, 07:12 pm
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I agree. I am a 23 year old virgin and in no rush to lose it. I would prefer for trust etc in a relationship before moving on
- April 18th, 2009, 05:32 pm
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I don't see how people can hold on for that long. I'm about to explode myself
- April 20th, 2009, 12:06 am
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It was not all that difficult to become a 51 year old virgin. Life goes fast and there are other things to do. And I did not bother to hide the fact I was a virgin, and I work in a lumbermill. That is just being honest with yourself and not worrying about what others think.


There was the advantage of not having to worry aboutAIDS when people were dropping like flies from it.


I did get to know a nice lady who was getting adjusted to some meds that made her want to explore sex more. We explored together. We learned it wasone of the better ways to getinto the subject. We did get tested before any fluid exchanges. (both safe).


She had some experience (divorsed), I was willing to learn, from her as well as books.


We went our own ways for other reasons.
- April 20th, 2009, 09:39 pm
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