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When I was married I didn't enjoy it as it was done wrong, no lube and just bang in. Then I met a guy that really knew how to do it and I have enjoyed it immensely since.
- February 14th, 2009, 06:37 am
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TO GO WHERE NO MAN HAS GONE BEFORE


IT HAS PROVEN TO BE A VERY PLEASURABLE EXPERIENCE BUT ITS NOT FOR EVERYONE
- February 14th, 2009, 08:28 am
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In reading all the posts I find it very interesting that the majority of men here who have experienced 'back door' were givers and not receivers.


With the right partner it can be quite a pleasureable experience. The right type of toy used in the right way can cause a man to experience a very different type of orgasm.
- February 15th, 2009, 07:16 pm
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The women I've been with have all tried it and already come with the preset that they didn't like it. The problem nearest I can tell is that the anus isnt like the vagina and when most people try it for the first time its an issue of to much force. It can be very pleasurable but it takes awhile, like more then just ramming it in the first time, to prepare the opening. Lots of lube is very important but i'd suggest starting with smaller tools, like fingers or smaller toys. Also need to get away from the stigma of it being dirty. genitals are all used to remove bodily waste ,but for some reason the anus is considered dirty because it removes solid waste rather then liquid waste. Just clean thoroughly first and make sure you didn't eat something for dinner that you normally have trouble with. Life is a potty ENJOY!
- February 15th, 2009, 08:05 pm
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kayteedid wrote :

In reading all the posts I find it very interesting that the majority of men here who have experienced 'back door' were givers and not receivers.


With the right partner it can be quite a pleasureable experience. The right type of toy used in the right way can cause a man to experience a very different type of orgasm.
Indeed. Or even if she fingers while giving a bj. It's very good!
- February 16th, 2009, 03:26 pm
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Sorry but Im an anal virgin... Im terrified! Also, I find it to be kind of gross.... just my opinion..
- May 3rd, 2009, 04:13 pm
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I say if she's into it, then, why not? But, if she isn't, then don't force or push the issue whatsoever.
- May 7th, 2009, 11:56 pm
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I'm first generation in this country and have dated a lot of ethnic gals. Their mindset on anal is much different then the American gals. The foreigner woman want to be marries and say they are virgins. So anal sex is acceptable. I have been rimed and fingered and it is stimulating and orgasmic. Its an erogenous zone on our bodies. I an a heterosexual male all the way.
- May 14th, 2009, 08:44 am
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An@l is definitely not my thing. Had two idiots trying to do forced an@l on me without me agreeing nor did they give me warning when they were about to shove it up hole #2. In both cases, they didn't even care to at least lubricate me first

Seriously, I just wouldn't go there anymore. It's like a phobia now. Besides, I don't feel any pleasure from it but pain alone.

I always tell the guy, if my p*ssy is not enough, he can use somebody else's backdoor to slam it on his c*ck
- May 15th, 2009, 01:27 am
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rfktoast,
Most woman, when you do anal, it is able to touch where their g-spot is. While as a man it will touch your prostate.
- June 21st, 2009, 03:59 pm
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