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Tender_Poet wrote :
Oh I agree there, but thease are all my answers to questions they pose pre open communication. Now the first letter I send, if I initiate it is about the same, how ever I change a bit here and there to personlize it to the person. After that it's all me and I don't referance any thing buy my immidiate thoughts then, now, what do you think?
It's not MY style, but then again, I'm a very off-the-cuff person, especially when it comes to writing. Like I said, if it makes you confident and it keeps you from hitting send and suddenly seeing a huge mistake, then it's fine.
- November 7th, 2009, 04:43 pm
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It's not MY style, but then again, I'm a very off-the-cuff person, especially when it comes to writing. Like I said, if it makes you confident and it keeps you from hitting send and suddenly seeing a huge mistake, then it's fine.
Nah, i run every thing i send though word any how... So is it good to do so, or is it lazyness now lol?
- November 7th, 2009, 04:46 pm
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Nah, i run every thing i send though word any how... So is it good to do so, or is it lazyness now lol?
You need to do what is right for you.
- November 7th, 2009, 04:48 pm
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You need to do what is right for you.
lol no stright answers...
- November 7th, 2009, 04:51 pm
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well it is hard to judge and give straight answers sometimes because that involves judging your character and only you can really know the answer to your question...everyone else can only give opinions. :-) So what is the answer?
- November 7th, 2009, 05:21 pm
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well it is hard to judge and give straight answers sometimes because that involves judging your character and only you can really know the answer to your question...everyone else can only give opinions. :-) So what is the answer?
heh ok, fair eniough new question. I need to get a mans and a womans perspective on this one. It has to do with some matches I have. I just want to talk about em in an message thought and not in the forum, so please post here that you are willing to do so and i will then say go ahead and email me here on this site. I just need to have some opinions is all...
- November 7th, 2009, 05:34 pm
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i don't know why you want to talk about your matches in PMs- but that is your prerogative.

but about your first question, i admit to doing something very similar to what you are doing for the first round of questions.

those questions are so canned and boring. and i have written my own answers- so really they are not canned. i at least am not picking on of the multiple choice answers- which i think of as very lame.

and in the second round, i always come up with my own questions based on what i have learned about that person up to that point.

and it goes a long way with me if my match does the same and writes her own question.
- November 7th, 2009, 07:54 pm
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I agree with notyet...not sure why you want to pose questions regarding your matches... seems to personal and involves another person without their permission. I definitely wouldn't want to be talked about in a public forum by a match. This would seem disrespectful and a lack of integrity on the part of the poster, but maybe you are posting questions more about yourself. So be aware of the ethical issues regarding talking about your matches and potential consequences from these types of discussions in public areas.

I want to know how to get to the second round. I hate the canned questions and inability to write more freely. I feel limited by these questions and would like more freedom. I feel that it doesn't always truly represent who I am. But I am still giving Eharmony at try for now.
- November 7th, 2009, 08:07 pm
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i don't know why you want to talk about your matches in PMs- but that is your prerogative.

but about your first question, i admit to doing something very similar to what you are doing for the first round of questions.

those questions are so canned and boring. and i have written my own answers- so really they are not canned. i at least am not picking on of the multiple choice answers- which i think of as very lame.

and in the second round, i always come up with my own questions based on what i have learned about that person up to that point.

and it goes a long way with me if my match does the same and writes her own question.
Not a bad idea.. I may have to try that, agreed all the questions seem so scripted....
- November 7th, 2009, 08:09 pm
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I agree with notyet...not sure why you want to pose questions regarding your matches... seems to personal and involves another person without their permission. I definitely wouldn't want to be talked about in a public forum by a match. This would seem disrespectful and a lack of integrity on the part of the poster, but maybe you are posting questions more about yourself. So be aware of the ethical issues regarding talking about your matches and potential consequences from these types of discussions in public areas.

I want to know how to get to the second round. I hate the canned questions and inability to write more freely. I feel limited by these questions and would like more freedom. I feel that it doesn't always truly represent who I am. But I am still giving Eharmony at try for now.
hmm, did not mean a public forum, arent pms here private? Any ways thats why I asked, just on advice, and i asked to do it privately to boot. But that's fine, I'll just wait till tomarow and ask some close friends I know in person...
- November 7th, 2009, 08:12 pm
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