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You've got a tough job here NotYet, 'cuz I get the idea that whenever folks make statements like this, they can't really explain themselves much, except just "repeat" or "insist".

So just speaking as a curious "heathen observer", I get the sense that everything is basically more of a "feeling" with religious folks. And maybe that's what the whole debate about religion really comes down to these days, the primacy of "feeling" over "reason".

Oh man, that reminds me of arguing with my "ex"!
Hi M on M: Belief in God is not based on feelings, but faith. Simon Peter, one of Jesus' disciples writes in his letter that we receive faith and knowledge of God from belief in Him.

1Simon Peter, a bond-servant and apostle of Jesus Christ, To those who have received a faith of the same kind as ours, by the righteousness of our God and Savior, Jesus Christ:

2Grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord; 3seeing that His divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence.

The author of Hebrews in chapter 11:1 defines faith:
1Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

Faith in God is not a feeling it is a knowing and conviction of things that we cannot see with our physical eyes. Just like I cannot see electricity but I know it is there and it turns my lights on. Sometimes I can even feel electricity but it is not what governs my belief. It is sometimes a manifestation of my belief, the same with God. I know He is there and is working on my behalf, but I cannot always feel Him. If I allowed my feelings to govern my reason then I would become deceived.

Paul writes to the Corinthian church about how he first came and preached to them. He did not try to convince them with his words or speech but demonstrated the power of God with his testimony of Christ so that their faith would not rest on a man's persuasive speech but on the reality of God. He then explains that God's wisdom and the things that God has given and will give in the future are only spiritually discerned after receiving the Spirit of God.
1And when I came to you, brethren, I did not come with superiority of speech or of wisdom, proclaiming to you the testimony of God.

2For I determined to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ, and Him crucified.
3I was with you in weakness and in fear and in much trembling,
4and my message and my preaching were not in persuasive words of wisdom, but in demonstration of the Spirit and of power,
5so that your faith would not rest on the wisdom of men, but on the power of God.
6Yet we do speak wisdom among those who are mature; a wisdom, however, not of this age nor of the rulers of this age, who are passing away;
7but we speak God's wisdom in a mystery, the hidden wisdom which God predestined before the ages to our glory;
8the wisdom which none of the rulers of this age has understood; for if they had understood it they would not have crucified the Lord of glory;
9but just as it is written,
"THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD,
AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN,
ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM."
10For to us God revealed them through the Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the depths of God.
11For who among men knows the thoughts of a man except the spirit of the man which is in him? Even so the thoughts of God no one knows except the Spirit of God.
12Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things freely given to us by God,
13which things we also speak, not in words taught by human wisdom, but in those taught by the Spirit, combining spiritual thoughts with spiritual words. 14But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised.

God's wisdom has such great depth that far beyond what our natural minds can conceive or imagine and He will teach us about these things when we love Him and seek Him with our whole heart.

I pray my friend that Father God will reveal Himself in the demonstration of the Spirit and power so that you will have an understanding and knowledge of Him that is not swayed by feelings. It will be knowing that creates faith in you. For I believe that if you are visiting and being a curious heathen observer that your spirit is seeking to know the Truth which is the Lord Jesus Christ who is alive and continuing to work by His spirit in the world until He returns again in power and glory with the saints and angels.
- November 10th, 2009, 03:07 pm
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meri75 wrote :
...I don't think you are a heathen ... now if you stuck tomato sauce over your bacon and eggs brekky, I may have to re-think that notion! lol
you just called my children "heathen."

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notyet wrote :
you just called my children "heathen."
Haha - I am utterly repulsed by any sauce flavour over bacon and eggs. We can blame my Dad ... he taught me!
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OK, if "Christians" want to try to stake a "proprietary claim" on the holiday, then they need to stand in line behind the Romans ("Saturnalia"), who swiped it from the Babylonians (the Feast of Isis on Dec. 25th), plus all the contributions of the pre-christian Druids (the tree, laurel, etc.), the Germans (Father Christmas), the Visigoths (the Yule feast to Mithras), and all the other Winter Solstice festivals, among others
i do understand your point- but here in america, it is christmas. legally and culturally. december 25th is one of ten public holidays legally recognized by the federal government. and if you asked 100 people on the street what day 12/25 was, i am willing to bet they would say "christmas."

but i will greet you with the holiday greeting of your choice. just let me know what it is by christmas eve.

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So just speaking as a curious "heathen observer", I get the sense that everything is basically more of a "feeling" with religious folks.
if you have read any of my posts- and i know you have- you would have to concede that my faith is not blind and has solid reasoning behind it.

you may not agree with my conclusions, but you must admit my faith is thought out.
- November 11th, 2009, 09:44 am
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We have certain words you can't use over the airwaves (radio or TV) and you can be fined for using them. Do it enough and your Federal Communications Commission (FCC) license can be revoked. I've had an FCC license myself for about 15 years.

But it's a bit bizarre. If you say "G** D**m", they bleep the word "God" and allow the other. It's the combination that isn't allowed. I understand, but it's weird seeing the word "God" bleeped. I've heard "fart" bleeped, but you can say a LOT worse and it's okay. The rules are a a bit strange , but a lot more lax than they used to be, though.

In public, like out on the street, I'm not sure what the rules are. If there are any, they're definitely not enforced.

It is rather bizarre that the mods let the "F" word slide in your post. I got modded on the main boards for it! However, I believe censorship standards within groups are not as strict, and brother notyet is a cool dude .

I live so close to the Canadian border that I am able to tune into both Canadian radio and T.V.stations. And I am amazed how "puritanical" U.S. standards are, when compared with Canada, and the rest of Western civilization for that matter. Why are American standards stricter by comparison? As a libertarian, it makes me wonder exactly how free we are as a society. Or, has the rest of Western Civilization become more nihilistic? After all, in recent history, we have not had a conflict ravage our continent. The battles have, for the most part, been "over there." In the aftermath of the Second World War, it was almost as if European civilization experienced wholesale disillusionment and loss of faith and a consequential slide into nihilism, as the result of the horrors of a war torn continent. Is it part of the whole "God and country" that underlies American society that makes us more "puritanical?" And, would we still have a sense of "God and country" if a blitzkrieg rolled across our continent? ( The advantages of being geographically isolated in a prepostmodern world. After all, in 1939, Poland's armed forces were larger and better equipped than ours, and look what happened to their country in less than a month. Anyways, I'm beginning to ramble now, so I better end the "ramblings of a madman" at this point ).

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moscowrunner wrote :
"Ok kids, everything you were told about Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, and the Tooth Fairy are not real. But everything you were told about the Bible is real - Jonah and the Great Fish, the Virgin Birth, etc..."

I have literally had non-believing or disgruntled parents use this kind of logic to discourage their children from coming to church. If Santa isn't real, then neither is Jesus. Only problem is there is a big difference between Santa not visiting and spending eternity in hell.
True. However, what if both propositions are equally untrue? That was the point of the initial post, and please don't respond by reiterating Pascal's Wager. Isn't it problematic for God to create a place like hell in the first place, and then turn around and make us responsible for the current generation of souls that are in danger of going to such a place? And, I'm not trying to be a "scoffer" here, however this would certainly be a problematic issue, if valid. If I were the kommandant of a concentration camp who inflicted suffering upon others, I would certainly be considered "evil" for doing so. However, what if I also had the power to stop such widespread horror and suffering, and failed to do so, what would my standard of "goodness" be? And like with previous discussion of Joshua, there are no easy answers, and one cannot simply respond with the passive -" God's ways are higher. Who am I to question. Therefore, let God be God." Such a response is both intellectually lazy and a cop out.

Has anyone else read Bill Wiese's book 23 Minutes in Hell? What were your impressions? First of all, the guy is an ordinary real estate agent (if he were a used car salesman, I'd really be suspicious ). And, God certainly uses ordinary people, and not the smug and pretentious types. At the very least, the guy certainly has a vivid imagination (However, there is also a vast body of literature on the subject, beginning with the apocryphal book of Enoch, which has greatly contributed to the popular imagination on the subject). I will also say that he also did a commendable job of drawing in all the obscure Old Testament references, before such a concept was clear or developed.

However, on the previous note of an existing body of literature on the subject, Wiese did refer to "respectable" Biblical scholarship on the subject. However, he also referred to such dubious sources as false teacher Kenneth Hagin (founder of the "neognostic" modern day Word/Faith Movement) who also had such an "alleged" experience. But perhaps, most importantly, obsessing over the alleged torments and demons of hell, replaces a "healthy and reverential" fear of God (Matt. 10:28). And, it was such an obsession with angelology/demonology that was a primary reason for the rejection of the canon of apocryphal books in the first place.

And, what about the idea of hell being located at the center of the earth? (an interesting Google search). After all, in spite of all our technological advances, we have never had a "journey to the center of the earth." And, if such a place of torment exists at the earth's center, wouldn't it be merciful to build a huge drill, and bore to the earth's core, so the souls suffering there have a possible means of escape?

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I just think it's funny how upset people are. How do you get so upset over something you say doesn't exist? We have to fight against it! People need to know there isn't a God! Why is that so important? What is happening that they have are willing to give money and research and argue for hours to prove this ever so important truth of "no god?" I don't believe in the Boogey Man or Santa Claus but I haven't started any groups together to hate on the people that do..? I"m confused...
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Isn't it problematic for God to create a place like hell in the first place, and then turn around and make us responsible for the current generation of souls that are in danger of going to such a place? .
We aren't "responsible" for the current generation of souls. Nobody's salvation is based on the works of any human being. We are responsible for being obedient to God. That obedience involves sharing our testimony and telling others about Christ. It may also involve going somewhere He tells us to go to share the love of Christ with people outside of our normal orbit. It may involve contributing money to send others, it may involve purchasing Christmas gifts for children in far away places, it may involve demonstrating His love by volunteering at a hospice or serving up a hot meal at a homeless shelter. There are an endless number of ways we are called to serve. The desire Christians have for others to come to know Christ is a reflection of His love. Our role in this process is to be obedient and allow God to use us as He does the work of salvation.
As for the "problematic" question - No, it is not problematic that God created such a place. It is mercy and grace and unfathomable love that He created a way that we do not have to end up there.
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I just think it's funny how upset people are. How do you get so upset over something you say doesn't exist? We have to fight against it! People need to know there isn't a God! Why is that so important? What is happening that they have are willing to give money and research and argue for hours to prove this ever so important truth of "no god?" I don't believe in the Boogey Man or Santa Claus but I haven't started any groups together to hate on the people that do..? I"m confused...
Yes, it is funny, 'cuz I don't recall ever having any "atheists" or "agnostics" or "godless humanists" knocking on my door trying to convert me, or bring me to "Ja-zus". Instead it always seems to be the "fundamentalist" types who go around proselytizing and insisting on what everybody else has to "believe".

If some of us decide to complain about that now and then, what of it. Does that somehow make Christians into "victims" of "hate & intolerance" now? And by any standard, the occasional atheist/agnostic/humanist rant certainly pales in comparison to the relentless evangelizing by the "saved" ("This is a Christian Nation!", "Honk if you love Jesus!", "Caution, this car will be unmanned during the Rapture!", blah-blah-blah...). So a little "turn-about" now and then is only fair play.

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