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Seeing as how there are a number of catholics on here, I'm somewhat tempted to start a discussion about some things I'm wondering about, but I'm also hesitant as I'm not sure if that'd be creating unwelcome controversy. If the latter is true, then I'm content to shut up. :-)


Otherwise, I'd be interested to hear from some genuine catholics about what they believe... I've heard that the catholic definition of grace, for instance, is quite different from my understanding. I could elaborate more on my questions if the topic is welcome. Although I guess the definition of grace is one of the main ones I've been wondering about.


I've also heard that various writings from the catholic church have just as much authority to the catholic as the bible... so I'm wondering, if I were to find something in scripture that didn't seem to support some catholic view, would this be irrelevant?
- March 27th, 2009, 08:02 pm
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I don't think it's controversial to seek to understand where beliefs come from and why..it's the lack of understanding that creates controversy.


that said .... I'll take a stab at your question on grace....what type of grace ? ...or maybe that will come out in the question


You'll have to elaborate on the Bible question. The canon of the Bible came from discernment of the early Church, which was the Roman Rite in the West and Orthodox rite in the East. There was only one Church and one Bible. There are obviously some teachings of Christianity that pre date the Bible...the earliest book being written about 20 or so years after Jesus was crucified. The differences today are mainly in interpretation and implementing the Christian way of life, not in basic doctrine
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I have a friend on here who could give you a pretty good idea on this. I am not Catholic but have respect for different viewpoints so have friends from different religious backgrounds. Shall I mention the topic to him?
- March 27th, 2009, 10:11 pm
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I don't think it's controversial to seek to understand where beliefs come from and why..it's the lack of understanding that creates controversy.


Okay, cool. Are you catholic yourself, or answering on behalf of a catholic? (I guess I'm wanting to engage in conversation with someone who is themselves a catholic.)


that said .... I'll take a stab at your question on grace....what type of grace ? ...or maybe that will come out in the question


I guess my question stems from the fact that Christians and Catholics can say the exact same phrase, but mean two completely different things by it. So they agree on the phrase, the but definitions of the words used in the phrase differ so much that the meanings of the phrase is very different.


My question about grace is the type of grace God gives men, in particular referring to salvation. "For by grace you are saved, through faith, and this not of yourselves, it is the gift of God, not as a result of works, so that no one should boast." (Eph. 2:8-9)


I spoke with a catholic about a year ago, because she was someone who really understood her faith and had studied it quite a bit (she had converted from Christianity and wanted to become a nun). She explained that "grace" is something like a "piece of God" (I hope I'm remembering this correctly). Her explanation of salvation was that when you initially trust in Christ, God forgives you and gives you grace. But then as you sin, you lose grace, and so you do various things to get grace back, like mass, confession, the rosary, penance, etc. I'm not sure if this definition holds true for what most catholics believe, but it's what she explained to me at the time, and again, I hope I'm remembering correctly.


That would explain how a Christian could read a verse like Eph. 2:8-9, and say "See, you don't contribute anything to your salvation: it's completely a gift of God" while a catholic could say "It's something you participate in" -- because of the different definitions of grace.


I have more question I want to ask, but first wanted to find catholics who know what they believe, who can answer them. Also, if you're catholic and the person who I spoke with a year ago did *not* correctly explain your view, then feel free to correct it. Just trying to repeat what was explained to me, but that doesn't mean the person I was speaking with got it right.

- March 27th, 2009, 11:14 pm
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Perhaps, we should rename the thread an ecumenical dialogue between Catholics and Protestants. I thought of proposing such a thread, but since the ball has already started rolling with this thread, I'll comment here.


It is important to note that both Catholics and Protestants are orthodox Christians (Orthodox Christians, with a big "O", are also "orthodox"- Catholics, Protestants, and Orthodox groups primarily compose all of "Christendom"). In other words, neither group lies within the realm of "cultic" or fringe groups, since they both believe in the core essentials of the historic Christian faith (One God, three distinct persons - Father, Son, and Holy Spirit; The deity of Christ as co-eternal and unbegotten along with God the Father and God the Holy Spirit; Christ as "only begotten" in the sense of the incarnation, and having a dual nature of beingboth fully God and fully man, yet choosing to divest himself of the exercise of his divine attributes in the incarnation, etc.).


However, part of the reason for the Reformation, was a Medieval Church that made the word of God "null and void" by it's traditions. The Protestant reformers, Luther, Calvin, Zwingli, and others, marched under the banner of "Sola Scriptura, Sola Fidea, Sola Gratia"- Scripture alone, faithalone, and grace alone."


Andtoday, there arestill two primary areas of fundmental disagreement between Catholics and Protestants. Protestants still believe in "SolaScriptura"- Scripture alone. However, the Roman CatholicChurch has placed the traditions of the Church on a level equal to that ofScripture. Granted, there are not corrupt priests, like Tetzel during the middle ages, running around selling indulgences, so people could free their dead relatives from Purgatory sooner. But the Church of Rome still places tradition equally along with Scripture. However, Protestantism has it's own charlatans. I saw one on a "Christian" network the other night selling "Resurrection seed faith" for "your miracle this Easter season."


And the other primary disagreement between Catholicsand Protestantsis over the "means of justification." And for Protestants, the means of justification is faith (sola fidea- faith alone). However, in Roman Catholicism, the means of justification is baptism. In other words, Protestants believe faith is essential for salvation, and Roman Catholicismteaches thatbaptism is essential for salvation.And that is the fundamental difference.
- March 28th, 2009, 06:48 am
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I am Roman Catholic myself yes....and it's a great discussion to get into if it fits into this group ok. And rix already expanded on the doctinesthat Christians share regardless of rite or denomination. Protestant, Roman Catholic, Greek and Russian Orthodox make up Christianity. Christianity is a religion of salvation. Our foundation is that Christ conquered death which becomes subject to life through Him. Jesus Christ is our Savior, and though His act of salvation, we are saved.


Typically these discussions become uncharitable...but it seems people here are a bit different than on most discussion boards. One key point is that in order to have a good discussion you have to recognize that there are areas where mutually exclusive views are ok....and can be proven by scripture equally. And as long as you don't try to get into the percentage of rightness one view has over the other it remains a great conversation.


Ithink your Catholic friend was a bit too broad so it makes things harder to understand.Luther began the process by which grace needed to be identified and further broken down into what seems like very different meanings. And this is why we deal with terms like sanctifying grace and actual grace in theology after that period in history.


So I'll use a couple quotes from the early Church.Athanasius said “God has not only made us out of nothing; but He gave us freely, by the grace of the Word, a life in correspondence with God" --- Catholics would think of this as sanctifying grace. St Ambrose said “every holy thought is the gift of God, the inspiration of God, the grace of God.” -- Catholics would think of this as actual grace


So what is grace from a Catholic view?- It's a gift from God, freely given to us. God dwelt among us in the person of Jesus Christ. His death on the cross served a very specific purpose....that we would experience the supernatural when we die...the Beatific Vision. This is not our experience of God here on this earth but the intimate knowledge of the Trinity. The point at which we no longer see Him in a clouded mirror, but are blinded by the light of God reflected in our soul.No matter how holy we are on earth we cannot know God in this manner norcan weachieve this on our own through any act ofintellect or merit -only through the supernatural itself. This supernatural gift is what we call grace


Sanctifying grace - The opposite of sin and injustice is sanctifying grace and justice. And justification is the basis for salvation. So essentiallya soul infused with sanctifying grace will,at the instant of death , experience the Beatific Vision. This type of grace is the absolute essence of the soul. Sanctifying grace resides in our souls in a state of permanence so to speak. Baptism for instance wipes out all sin and sanctifying grace fills the soul


Actual grace - Again this comes from God.In addition to our soul we have a human mind and a will.God calls us to Himself in many ways and we choose to accept, ignore, or reject Him. God may give us a supernatural thought to prayor be sorry for a sin for instance...this is an actual grace that we can choose to act on and accept. Unlike sanctifying gracewe move with God in the gracesHe offers. God calls us to comfort the sick, weexperience a tragedy in our lives and God calls us to prayer, we have a sudden thought to volunteer in a natural disaster effort. We accomplish the act through our yes to the grace that God initiated. Actual grace is internal to our mind and will


External graces - I think this is what your Catholic friend was trying to convey. External graces draw us tointernal actual grace. attending Mass, praying the rosary, these things draw us closer to God and in accepting the graces he sends. If you think of Jesus and His mission on earth, His cross, His words and examples - this is what Catholics would call external graces.


I'll come back and tie this into the way Luther viewed justification compared to the Catholic view and also offer thoughts about your questions on specific scripture.





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I am glad that this discussion got started since there are those that are interested in it. I am glad that someone pointed out though that the distinction is Protestants and Catholics NOT Christian and Catholic as Christianity is a heart relationship and a choice to live for Christ, not a denomination. Though I will identify myself as more protestant in my views, I have friends who add to the light of my faith that come from a diversity of different religious vies.


Be aware, as this is an open group. there may be some people who will be unchartible in the discussion, that is the nature of a group where mercy is for all so all are accepted. I love the manner you all are starting this though. It has the feeling of respect as you discuss. Perhaps those of us who care can show a bit of the unity of Christ that crosses religious lines as we share our views on these things.


O, and on grace, I was talkinga Messianic friends yesterday, another group that has a difference of interpretation on these ideas. He did share the history of grace as the physical act of the tents being circled so that those who had the "grace" of the elders could be within the circle of protection of the village. I thin that image adds some to any discussion on the meaning of grace.
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I am glad that this discussion got started since there are those that are interested in it. I am glad that someone pointed out though that the distinction is Protestants and Catholics NOT Christian and Catholic as Christianity is a heart relationship and a choice to live for Christ, not a denomination. Though I will identify myself as more protestant in my views, I have friends who add to the light of my faith that come from a diversity of different religious vies.


Be aware, as this is an open group. there may be some people who will be unchartible in the discussion, that is the nature of a group where mercy is for all so all are accepted. I love the manner you all are starting this though. It has the feeling of respect as you discuss. Perhaps those of us who care can show a bit of the unity of Christ that crosses religious lines as we share our views on these things.


O, and on grace, I was talkinga Messianic friends yesterday, another group that has a difference of interpretation on these ideas. He did share the history of grace as the physical act of the tents being circled so that those who had the "grace" of the elders could be within the circle of protection of the village. I think that image adds some to any discussion on the meaning of grace.
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Many Baptists would not consider themselves Protestant but believe they are descended from the Anabaptists. 60 million Anabaptists were killed by Catholics and Protestants during the middle ages because (at least in large part) they refused to comply with infant baptism. So you can see why they might consider themselves a different denomination.


I am enjoying this discussion. It is very to interesting to have each person explain how they perceive their denominations teachings.
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I forgot about that from my days back as an Anabaptist in my growing up years. Thanks for the reminder that different groups view themselves differently based on things in their history. Perhaps if we just share from our point of entry in the dialogue of truth that is as close as we can get to God until we see God face to face, we can just talk about that without having sides or VS. explicit in the issue. I do enjoy the variance here, it helps me question and grow in my own faith.
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