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Hmm - you could have just answered the questions... if his intentions were misplaced then he probably would not have contacted you again correct? However, if he was simply attempting to see how you would respond to it, in order to tell if you were the RIGHT type of woman then assuming his type isn't fair. I will say though that if his intentions were pure he certainly needs to use a more tactful method of discovering your intentions :P
- October 27th, 2008, 10:32 am
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txgrl63, wrote :

OK, one of my matches rquested communication. He asked the one about how much personal space do you need, how do feel about premarital sex and how physically affectionate are you?


So, my first thought is that he is a horndog. I am not a prude by any means, but I have never had anyone start off asking about sex right off the bat.

Going with your gut is often a good idea. But it's entirely possible that he's just asking to make sure right off that you agree on those things - if you don't then a relationship doesn't have much chance. Personally, I have limitations in place for relationships, but I"m not shy about answering or asking such questions. Actually one of the things that bothers me about regular dating is that I have to wait until a certain point to hit more serious topics when I could have just asked them at the beginning and known that it wouldn't work.
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txgrl63, wrote :

OK, one of my matches rquested communication. He asked the one about how much personal space do you need, how do feel about premarital sex and how physically affectionate are you?


So, my first thought is that he is a horndog. I am not a prude by any means, but I have never had anyone start off asking about sex right off the bat.

You won't know if he's a horndog until he responds again. He's posed legitimate questions, answer truthfully with your views on the subjects.


Don't sweat it, if you're still in GC, you shouldn't... wouldn't... or couldn't have built any bonds to him. If he doesn't like your answers or you don't like his ensuing communications close it off before you get to OC
- October 28th, 2008, 06:41 am
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