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Hi Rebekah!


This is what I learnt about pain. It is inevitable in life. How we deal with it determines our destiny. If we try to numb it with addictions we will mess our lives. If we take our pain to Jesus, He will use it to purify us and make us people of worth...


I completely agree with Diana's advice to you...


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- August 19th, 2008, 08:09 am
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Thank you Steve! God Bless you! Enjoy your time here on E-Advice!
- August 19th, 2008, 12:39 pm
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Hi Diana.


So good to hear how the Lord touched your life. I have found in my experience in dealing the person who hurt you you must forgive them and pray for them. Jesus gave us that example. It is amazing how your attutide over time will change. You will experience inner peace and joy. After my marriage of 31 years ended in divorce I was so hurt and angry. I didn't talk to my ex for years. WHo did I hurt? I hurt myself and my family. I fianlly forgave him and prayed for him. The hurt will try to creep back in if I let it. Don't dwell on the hurt,as it will destroy you. A beautiful christian lady, Corey Tenbaum, who was in a consentration camp for years gave an excellent analogy. It is like going to a fishing pond where a no fishing sign is posted. We dump out the entire contents of our purse. Then little by little with take the items back. By the way my ex and I do talk now.


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- August 29th, 2008, 04:59 am
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Diana,


I would like to join your group but there is no option on the home pape to do so.
- August 29th, 2008, 05:05 am
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Thornlessrose wrote :

Diana,


I would like to join your group but there is no option on the home pape to do so.
It looks open to me. Look at the top! It should have a button to join group!
- August 30th, 2008, 09:59 am
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Thornlessrose wrote :

Hi Diana.


So good to hear how the Lord touched your life. I have found in my experience in dealing the person who hurt you you must forgive them and pray for them. Jesus gave us that example. It is amazing how your attutide over time will change. You will experience inner peace and joy. After my marriage of 31 years ended in divorce I was so hurt and angry. I didn't talk to my ex for years. WHo did I hurt? I hurt myself and my family. I fianlly forgave him and prayed for him. The hurt will try to creep back in if I let it. Don't dwell on the hurt,as it will destroy you. A beautiful christian lady, Corey Tenbaum, who was in a consentration camp for years gave an excellent analogy. It is like going to a fishing pond where a no fishing sign is posted. We dump out the entire contents of our purse. Then little by little with take the items back. By the way my ex and I do talk now.


God Bless, Terry
You mean Corrie Ten Boom! I am familiar with that story ! Thanks for your encouragement!


I hope things work out for you and your ex. God Bless you! I will pray!
- August 30th, 2008, 10:02 am
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Holding a grudge is like taking poision and expecting the other person to die!!!
- September 26th, 2008, 01:09 am
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