Men intimidated by my dog

All I had to see was the title of this thread and I had to post. If you were ready to date someone, of course, they'd already know about your dog. If they were attacked as a child, or said they'd just never really been around pets or some thing (insane) like that, you would know and understand. Dog people are NOT scared of dogs.


We all know they're usually good judges of character. And yes, it would take quite a fellow to come between me and any dog I've ever had.(And, yes, I know they're not really kids, but just as ifyou had a child, you'relegally and morally responsible for their safety, health, upbringing, training, etc.)


If a man is that intimidated, he's got some issues. I could understand a momentary nervousness, but if you're dog is a natural lover (not a biter, fighter, barker), I'd have to say that you should expect them to relax pretty quickly!


Last month,Ihad a college-guyclearing out stuff from my yard. I'd already asked if he was 'dog-friendly.' We walked in the backyard and my smaller dog was out there(70 pounds). He trotted towards me, tail waving in the air. Then hesaw the boy andhisfur went up from tip to tail and he started barking. I grabbed his collar as he approached andcorrected him whilethe guy,behind me stood still. The dog relaxed, the guy put out his hand and after a quick sniff,Apollo was off lookingfor a cat to chase. (Don'tthink this is some well trained, obedient pooch, either.) Later the guy said, he'd been around dogs all his life, butwas never reallyscaredbefore but my dogdid scare him at first.


My dog was just not used to folks coming into the yard. He usually barks when they're at the door and once I tell them it's OK and the door opens, they're both just trying to find out if the visitorhas apizza or burger stashed intheir pocket.


Trust your instinct and your dog.


I KNOW you wouldn't consider going out with someone who did not like animals...