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Hey everyone,

Sooo, is it me or is Eh starting to seem like a waste of time and money? About a month ago I paid for a 3 month membership and so far I have yet to have ANY matches respond to my request to communicate except ONE. Majority of the "new matches" dont even have a picture and from what I'm reading, they dont even have a membership!?!? What is the point of matching us with people who cant even respond to us. Another thing is that why am I always having to start the communications, when I get a new match, does it send my profile to that new match as well? Anyways, I am somewhat disappointed in the structure of the website.

I do want to make one thing clear, that I am not expecting to find someone RIGHT AWAY, but i am expecting a professional, legit matching system. Not a system based on misleading information such as matches not even being members. Anyways, am I alone ont his one? Do I need to do something to my settings to stop the "spam" matches?
- September 2nd, 2009, 11:35 am
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I just joined this site on Monday. I have had no successfull, but I do need to be patient and give it time. However, I have been closed on many occasions. By joining the forums, I have had more females talk to me in just a few days. I don't want to pay for a site, and not get anything out of it. If there were chatrooms for members, I think it would help out the process more. I think I will end up talking to someone on the forums before the actual site. I created a basic outline profile about myself, and I provided a picture. This could be another way to meet someone.
- September 4th, 2009, 01:43 pm
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