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Okay, so I've heard it said many times that God will bring you together with His intended when you are not looking.

I don't want to "look" but it's so hard not to. So how do we overcome the tendency to look? And shouldn't it be the men who look? I mean it is their nature to hunt and take.

Is it okay if I listen? You know the resonance of a man's voice is quite effective around the right woman.
- November 7th, 2009, 02:32 pm
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