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gdjsky01 is offline gdjsky01 Post #1  February 18,2008, 8:20pm
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Have you all gone goth?



Do you really believe I think high heels enslave you?



Are you so a-sexual that the idea of wear thigh highs is sickening.





You may wonder where all the heros have gone. I wonder where have all the Kim Novaks or Audrey Hepburns gone.



What a shame.
 
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QVictoria is offline QVictoria Post #2  February 21,2008, 8:29am
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gdjsky01 to whom are you referring? I wear high heels (2, 3, 4, inches) everyday - to work, to the supermarket, to the theater. You must have missed me.
 
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Emme is offline Emme Post #3  February 21,2008, 4:01pm

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gdjsky01, wrote :

Have you all gone goth?



Do you really believe I think high heels enslave you?



Are you so a-sexual that the idea of wear thigh highs is sickening.





You may wonder where all the heros have gone. I wonder where have all the Kim Novaks or Audrey Hepburns gone.



What a shame.
You sound like that guy Gabriel who is looking for all the hot "bad girls". Heels don't make the woman, my friend. Many women don't feel sexual in high heels because they hurt. Or thigh highs pinch. Some prefer flats for health reasons like a bad back or knees. If you are relying on shoes to determine if a woman is for you, then you will miss out on a LOT of amazing women.

I for one love heels, but don't wear them to work. I wear them when I want to, not when some guy tries to make me feel a-sexual or non-feminine for not wearing them. For men like that I'd wear construction boots and baggy pants. I like real men, who understand real women in all of our facets.
 
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Hope_this_helps is offline Hope_this_helps Post #4  April 8,2008, 3:46pm
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I wore some skinny 5 inch Marciano silettos on my waste of a date last night and wished I hadn't. I had to wait standing in them outside for 15 minutes because he was late and the restaurant refused to seat me until he arrived. Aside from being uncomfortable, I get cold if I'm outside in them very long on a chilly night. Just because she doesn't wear them on a first date, don't think she won't wear them at all. If she knows how much you like them she will wear them if she's into you- especially if she doesn't have to walk very far in them
 
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gdjsky01, wrote :

Have you all gone goth?



Do you really believe I think high heels enslave you?



Are you so a-sexual that the idea of wear thigh highs is sickening.





You may wonder where all the heros have gone. I wonder where have all the Kim Novaks or Audrey Hepburns gone.



What a shame.
I see your point, I would take that it is a turn-on for you, as it is for me too!

In one of my past relationships, (she moved to another country with her job- we are still friends today), however, she was the escents of total sexiness (in my personal opinion – of course, I do not want to offend any of the ladies out there). She, all the time no matter what or where she was going wore 3-5” heels (shoes and boots), and one day I asked her this question: How DO you wear those heels so naturally – she said "it takes a lot of practice and devotion and working yourself up; however, I have been wearing heels since I was 12 and after a few years your feet and ankles just get used to them, in fact for me wearing anything less than with a 3” arch HURTS my feet, PLUS I cannot tell you how sexy, confident, and feminine I feel when wearing them, plus I know they get your attention for sure" [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif[/img]

So I guess it all comes down to what motivates you in life, and as a woman how you identify with your feminine side, and of course what you get “used to” over time.

Personally for me, it sure does not have to be all the time, however when going out to a special outing or the woman of my life is in a sexy and frisky mood, well then bring them on! The taller the better.

And now that I think about it, one of the many characteristics of the of the woman I most likely end up marring, well -she would love shoes and have the perfect pair for EVERY occasion, I want her to be happy about being the woman she is!

In comment to a comment above from “Emme”, she was not a "Bad Girl" whatsoever, she was a "Good Girl",she was only bad when she wanted to be and that was me alone! Lol.[img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-cool.gif[/img]

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Dear gdjsky01,

Walk a mile in my high heels for a year and then you'll figure out where all the high heeled women went. I'll save you the trouble.All thosehigh heeled women end up at the Podiatristto have operations to repair their arthritis laden bad feet from having worn high heels for 20 yearsor to the Chiropractor to fix their bad back. You may find them all there! [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-smile.gif[/img]
 
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The_Guidance_Guy,80151 wrote :
How DO you wear those heels so naturally – she said "it takes a lot of practice and devotion and working yourself up; however, I have been wearing heels since I was 12 and after a few years your feet and ankles just get used to them, in fact for me wearing anything less than with a 3” arch HURTS my feet
I don't want to ruin your illusions, but the reason flat shoes hurt her is because after so many years of wearing heels her achilles tendon has shortened! I see surgery in her future. Don't get me wrong, I love wearing heel and have quite a collection, but I can't and won't do it all day every day.
 
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FYI: I wear high heels for myself, not for anyone else. I think you are talking about a certain kind of women from the 50's and this is 2008! Life in general is more relaxed now. Women don't wear hats and gloves to work anymore, must like you guys aren't wearing suits and hats anymore. I see TEN TIMES more men in jeans and baseball caps nowadays, personally.
 
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Gotta love a girl in heels...totally sexy!
 
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jamisco is offline jamisco Post #10  April 9,2008, 8:58pm
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Heels girl here! I don't wear them for anyone but myself. They make me feel sexy and confident. And I have to agree with the other ladies here - where are the guys in suits?
 
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