luvmeluvmydogs is offline luvmeluvmydogs Post #351  April 1,2011, 5:13pm
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fiestynfun wrote :
Glad you asked~ I'm on day three of eH and have encountered the same "problem". I've decided to initiate first each time, my reasoning being that it's usually during the workday and since I haven't started back to school yet, I'm home. Hope that's the right decision...


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I was suprised to see that others felt as I do. I have been a member for almost a month now and the only people that I have received reply from my icebreakers.closed my match and only one person that has viewed me has sent me an icebreaker so it made me wonder also if the people I am sending things to are even active members I too had high expectations for e-harmony but what good does it do if I have 150 matchs and none of them reply. I didn't expect them all the reply but 1 or 2 would be nice. Another question I have is if someone declines your harmony mail what action do I take?
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Now about your matches not having started communication yet. There could be any number of reasons but the most likely one is that they are not paying members therefore they cannot communicate. Get used to matches that do not communicate, a large percentage of your matches will be non-paying members and will not communicate.
Ohhh
I had no idea.
Generally, if I meet someone in person just in everyday life, I smile at them if I sense something about them that I like. So I like the 'send a smile' button. Generally, I feel more comfortable when the man does the pursuing and I'm the responder. Not that I'm weak or passive, I just feel like it's hotter that way.
 
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miss_sparkle wrote :
Ohhh
I had no idea.
Generally, if I meet someone in person just in everyday life, I smile at them if I sense something about them that I like. So I like the 'send a smile' button. Generally, I feel more comfortable when the man does the pursuing and I'm the responder. Not that I'm weak or passive, I just feel like it's hotter that way.
It may well be hotter that way, but if you aren't having many men initiate w/ you, you may need to take the lead. Of course, if lots of guys are hitting on you, then it's not a problem.
 
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