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I think i was matched withte same guy twice. I am not sure though. Their is allot of similiarities betwen hte two. One time is October 2006 and the other in April 2007.


Now what is realy strange after all this time the guy wanted me to reopen him with the reason I thought we had potential. But when i reopened him just becasue I felt like it he closed me a few days later with other and the no chemistry reason. I asked him why he felt we had potential befroe he closed meand he said I do not know.


I just wanted to be friends for now. And he ends up closing me. Go figure huh.


Well I will figure out if it isthe same guy because i reopened him also to see if he closes me also.
- July 22nd, 2008, 11:11 am
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Well, I haven't had the same match on EH twice. But I have had a person match from more than one site! And he didn't sizzle either time . . .
- July 22nd, 2008, 11:26 am
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angel, wrote :

I think i was matched withte same guy twice. I am not sure though. Their is allot of similiarities betwen hte two. One time is October 2006 and the other in April 2007.


Now what is realy strange after all this time the guy wanted me to reopen him with the reason I thought we had potential. But when i reopened him just becasue I felt like it he closed me a few days later with other and the no chemistry reason. I asked him why he felt we had potential befroe he closed meand he said I do not know.


I just wanted to be friends for now. And he ends up closing me. Go figure huh.


Well I will figure out if it isthe same guy because i reopened him also to see if he closes me also.
Well i think i figured it out he closed me with other. I just want to ask John from millwaukee why he thought we had potential then a few days laterno chemistry.
- July 22nd, 2008, 11:35 am
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I closed my account last Sept. I decided to get back on this yearso I opened a new account not realizing I could have reopened my old account. That was awkward because I got a lot of the same matches again. But I did end up meeting some that closed or I closed last year.


- July 22nd, 2008, 12:05 pm
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michaell1999 wrote :

I closed my account last Sept. I decided to get back on this yearso I opened a new account not realizing I could have reopened my old account. That was awkward because I got a lot of the same matches again. But I did end up meeting some that closed or I closed last year.

So when you met these people on the second round did anything work out?
- July 22nd, 2008, 12:26 pm
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Yes. Actually, he initiated contact but I was so busy around that time. Before I had a chance to respond, he understandably closed me with the "not respond" line. In the second time, he initiated contact again, and I really was going to respond, but in two days he closed it again with the same "not respond" line. Oh well. My fault. I can't blame him.
- July 22nd, 2008, 12:45 pm
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I was matched twice to a woman because she'd closed one account and later started a new one. We got together for a brief visit in March but there really wasn't any chemistry.


Had an odd one on the 4th of July. I was matched to this one local woman on a couple of other dating sites a few years ago. I think I'd traded an email or two with her but I didn't havea great deal of attraction for her (partly a height thing, she listed her height as over 6 feet). So, I was at a flea market thing on the 4th in the center of my town and I'm pretty sure I recognized her and she recognized me; I'm pretty sure I saw her at a store recently too. Kind of strange to run into someone like that, especially when it looks like she recognized me too.
- July 22nd, 2008, 12:59 pm
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angel wrote :

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I think i was matched withte same guy twice. I am not sure though. Their is allot of similiarities betwen hte two. One time is October 2006 and the other in April 2007.


Now what is realy strange after all this time the guy wanted me to reopen him with the reason I thought we had potential. But when i reopened him just becasue I felt like it he closed me a few days later with other and the no chemistry reason. I asked him why he felt we had potential befroe he closed meand he said I do not know.


I just wanted to be friends for now. And he ends up closing me. Go figure huh.


Well I will figure out if it isthe same guy because i reopened him also to see if he closes me also.


Well i think i figured it out he closed me with other. I just want to ask John from millwaukee why he thought we had potential then a few days laterno chemistry.
He probably closed you out just to get back at you for closing him out previously. He's a baby.
- July 22nd, 2008, 02:11 pm
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I just recently had this happen, but the picture was an older picture and the profiles were a little different. Were in the open communication process right now and this morning when I got my new matches I got a new one with his name and age with a city next to the city where he lives. I'm wondering if it'sa gift subscription or something. It's kind of odd though. He hasn't closed the match yet though.
- July 22nd, 2008, 02:42 pm
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angel, wrote :

I think i was matched withte same guy twice. I am not sure though. Their is allot of similiarities betwen hte two. One time is October 2006 and the other in April 2007.


Now what is realy strange after all this time the guy wanted me to reopen him with the reason I thought we had potential. But when i reopened him just becasue I felt like it he closed me a few days later with other and the no chemistry reason. I asked him why he felt we had potential befroe he closed meand he said I do not know.


I just wanted to be friends for now. And he ends up closing me. Go figure huh.


Well I will figure out if it isthe same guy because i reopened him also to see if he closes me also.
I think this just happened to me this morning. I've been talking to someone on here for awhile now and we just got to the open communication stage. Then I just got my new matches this morning and there was a match with the same name and age, but a different picture (looked like and older picture) and the profile was basically the same, but a little different. The city that was listed was the city next to the one of the guy I've been talking to. I'm wondering if someone got him a gift subscription maybe or something like that. I don't know what to think. I just sent him an email asking him what's up with him having two profiles, so I guess we'll see what happens.
- July 22nd, 2008, 02:50 pm
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