WHTCH OUT FOR PURE SEXEST QUESTIONS!!


Ever been asked, what in your life are you most proud? Think about it, if you were asking a mother, what else can she say, except, " I raised X no. of wonderful children. They are....,.Now if asked to a man, what is he going to say, I raised X no. of wonderful children?... I don't think so,... so this question is purely sexest. It's an obvious question for a woman (mother). but a leading question for a man. This is the problem for men. This often leads to ,"Yes I have great children and wonderful grandchildren", and after further questioning, "I'm also ready at monents notice to drop everything and rush to my childrens need to help raise my Grandchildren". Well, think about it, are you looking for a companion, who is going to say ,"goodby, I got to go to take care of my Grandchildren while my grown child get out of this or that situation"??? It's real tough, and as men weoften call this "bagage". As a retired person, who has lived amongest lots of other retirees, this is one of the greatest problems facing our generation, how to say NO, to the kids, and it's a real problem facing e-Harmony persons. How, do we find a mate who can say NO to their grown children. If we ask them to choose up front, your going to get a "close" imeadiately. The only thing to do is ask suttle questions, such as ,How are your children doing? Have you helped then out lately? How many times per year do you see them?? Whats the situation with the Grandchildren? What do you think is the educational opertunity with the Grandchildren??? And so on... untill you get a clear picture. It's real touchy, but a woman or a man who wants to be knowned as a second generation family raiser will finally tip their hand, and its best to know this information up front, especially if your through with raising a family. Take heed my fellow eHarmony lookers.