tangochef is offline tangochef Post #1  January 25,2012, 10:18pm
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I have a couple of photos of me rehearsing with my partner. Should I include them, if so which one? Usually I am reluctant to include pics that have other people in them, but hard to include a photo dancing just of myself.
 
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The quality of the photos is pretty horrible; I wouldn't include either of them. See if you can get something in focus (and, where it actually looks like you're enjoying yourself!).
 
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I agree with neardc. Those aren't photos that would entice me in any way. I would expect more from you on this one.
 
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Getting good photos of dancing is pretty hard, as the lighting in dance studios is not especially bright, and movement is quick. You need a good camera with settings allowing fast pictures in low light. If you really want pictures of you dancing, set up a photo shoot on an outdoor stage on a sunny day.

But given those photos, I wouldn't post them.
 
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Wow! Girl is beautiful! (sorry, could not help myself )

No, don't put it on your profile. For many women photo of match with other women would be immediate turn-off

Why you are not dating your partner?
 
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biking_girl wrote :
Wow! Girl is beautiful! (sorry, could not help myself )

No, don't put it on your profile. For many women photo of match with other women would be immediate turn-off

Why you are not dating your partner?
She and her fiancee are very good friends of mine. So, no can't date her.

Based on input, removed the photos.
 
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tangochef wrote :
She and her fiancee are very good friends of mine. So, no can't date her.

Based on input, removed the photos.
sorry, I didn't want to hurt your feelings.

You look really cool.

I wanted ask your advice about dance classes, partners, etc.
 
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Wah. No pics! :{
 
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biking_girl wrote :
sorry, I didn't want to hurt your feelings.

You look really cool.

I wanted ask your advice about dance classes, partners, etc.
Ha! My feelings don't get hurt over input I ask for. And, I was kind of concerned of having a picture of a dance partner that is attractive on my profile. So, your comment about that was good.

Feel free to ask about dance classes, partners etc., either here or PM.
 
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And make sure that any photos you have of your dancing partner, that she is ok with being on a dating website. It's only right to ask her permission.
 
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