EH sending a few same sex matches!!!!


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weim1239 is offline weim1239 Post #1  January 24,2012, 8:28am
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I have been on EH for a few months and it has been a fairly positive experience for the most part... However over the past two weeks EH has sent me two same sex matches.

I have emailed matchconcerns@eharmony several times but they never respond.

EH's supposed incredible matching system can't be all that great if they are matching me with other males. That in itself is frustrating; however their lack of concern regarding the issue really annoys me.

Has anyone else had same sex matches show up in their profile... ?

I am sure I will get this question but I am sure I signed up correctly. I have hundreds of female matches..
 
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eharmonyjc is offline eharmonyjc Post #2  January 24,2012, 8:55am
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I had a female match sent to me once. I think it's just a glitch in the system.
 
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Wiseman2 is offline Wiseman2 Post #3  January 24,2012, 9:09am
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Is that why you turned off matching...lol
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I had a female match sent to me once. I think it's just a glitch in the system.
There have been posts about that before. Quite a glitch..... Hopefully not what they have in mind with the "What if?" option..lol
 
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The questionnaire is very thorough. Have you met any of those matches to see if your reluctance to same sex dating can be overcome? It is possible that your ideal match just happens to be male at the moment. Perhaps changing that is something you could discuss later on in the relationship. Keep us posted.
 
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Wiseman2 is offline Wiseman2 Post #5  January 24,2012, 9:55am
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This is true.....it could be another one of their "beta" experiments.
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The questionnaire is very thorough. Have you met any of those matches to see if your reluctance to same sex dating can be overcome? It is possible that your ideal match just happens to be male at the moment. Perhaps changing that is something you could discuss later on in the relationship. Keep us posted.
 
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jpc_prog is offline jpc_prog Post #6  January 24,2012, 10:12am
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An edgy flex match?

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I've also had random flex matches from other countries well outside my 100mile radius...
 
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I always wonder if these are scammers who got control of a paid member's account. I say this because I know a man who ate up the lines fed to him by a scammer and suddenly his profile wasn't his anymore and it was also turned into that of a female. Poor guy.
 
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eharmonyjc is offline eharmonyjc Post #8  January 24,2012, 12:16pm
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Wiseman2 wrote :
Is that why you turned off matching...lol There have been posts about that before. Quite a glitch..... Hopefully not what they have in mind with the "What if?" option..lol
No that's who my "I met someone" is. I figured the guys weren't working out so well so why not swing the other way j/k
 
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jme21 is offline jme21 Post #9  January 24,2012, 12:26pm
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I always thought flex matches were matches trying to find their way to the gym...
 
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ami1uwant is offline ami1uwant Post #10  January 24,2012, 2:54pm
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Eharmony needs more revenue so they are branching off.....

maybe in the new years free weekend they gave option sign up for same on same matches

This could have easily been a technical glitch are data entry error by the user.

The other possibility is someone else using the left over time on anothers account by going in and changing their profile and the pictures.
 
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