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skwm is offline skwm Post #21  January 27,2012, 10:03pm
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Anyone else find it really annoying how you can't distinguish paying from non-paying members?
oh my god, yes. then again, if we knew who wasn't a paying member, we wouldn't initiate communication with them. and since that's what entices non-paying members to sign up for the service, i doubt they'll ever distinguish paying from non-paying members.
 
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mhawkins258 wrote :
So I can't state my opinion on this hypothetical situation without getting mocked, old timer? If I had all the answers, I wouldn't be asking for opinions regarding being an eHarmony member. I'm just here to figure out how this all works.

By the way, how does one rack up thousands of posts on an online dating service message board? I mean, once you're successfully working within the confines of the system or scored successfully with a match, then why would you stay on these boards to rack up that many posts about dating and relationships? If you're such an expert, why would you be here in the first place? Unless you're a forum mod or on eH payroll. No offense, I'm just curious...
It is very easy to tell the Moderators and Admins from the "regular" members. We have colored borders on all of our posts.

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Actually, it is very easy to distinguish. Non-paying members are those that do not contact you. Paying members are those that do.
this is the best attitude to have, i think.
 
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skwm wrote :
this is the best attitude to have, i think.
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Actually, it is very easy to distinguish. Non-paying members are those that do not contact you. Paying members are those that do.
Same goes for interest level.
 
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