A Quick Profile Review, 28 Male

What are you most passionate about?

In a word, people. In a paragraph? After graduating college I felt as though I had missed something in my education. I spent some time reading and self reflecting to ultimately realize that just because someone is intelligent, doesn’t mean he is socially intelligent. I decided then and there that I would spend as much time as it took to fully develop myself and my social skills. Over time I understood that people more than anything else are the key to self actualization. The relationships we cultivate and maintain shape who we are today and who we will be tomorrow. Ultimately, this decision led me to pursue a career in Social Psychology.

What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?

There is this turning point that comes as you sit there talking to someone late at night in a coffee shop. You're laughing at something, maybe the climax of a story, and while it wasn't told as a joke, you laugh because you know what it was like for that person. You feel this connection, a vibe, and as the air settles, a small voice reminds you that just 30 minutes earlier you were basically strangers. I am not sure if I know a name for this quality. I think of it as a social intuition. Are you engaging and maintain the flow of the conversation, or are you listing your favorite sparkle vampires as I wonder how I can politely check the time?

Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?

I remember, some time ago, borrowing a book from Dr. Wesley. I made it halfway through before, unfortunately, putting it down. About a year later during a lecture she mentioned that she had given up on lending out books as they never returned. Recalling the forgotten book, I promptly finished it, and, preparing an apology, went to visit her. As I told her the story, she just laughed and said, “Chase, I learned that lesson years ago.” Taking the book, she signed it, “To my good friend, Chase.” I hold onto this story as a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, even for such a small thing as a book.

What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?

I am thankful for my supportive family. Without them, I would not be the person that I am today. I am extremely fortunate to have them.

I am thankful for the friendships I have formed over the years. I believe it is important to know how to make friends and build relationships regardless of where you roam. I appreciate my close circle of friends in whom I can confide and trust.

I am thankful for the environment that I live in. I am grateful that I live in a nation where I am free to think, express myself, practice the religion of my choice, and speak out publicly even if my views were to differ from those of the government. I am grateful for college campuses and institutions where people can come together to learn and debate openly.

Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?

Shortly after,”You’re tall,” comes,”You’re funny.” I’m not out there trying to entertain anyone. I simply try to talk about the things others enjoy. I’ve learned that my life is only as fulfilling and productive as those of the people around me. I’ve also learned that the right quip or the right story can turn a person’s day around. Good vibes are contagious. It’s my job to go out there and spread them. Asking people how they’re doing, really listening to them, and giving them hope that things will get better, THESE are the things I try to do.

“You’re funny.”

‘Maybe.

So, tell me about that Chinese place you were checking out.’

What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?

I often hear from others that they do not think I have emotions. What I think they mean is that they have never seen me lose my cool, which is absolutely true. I try to stack the deck as best I can to stay positive. However, anger, sadness, anxiety, they do come up, but I see them for what they are. I deal with them quickly and don’t let them control me. I feel. I know the nostalgia you get looking back at the good times, how small you seem standing at the top of a mountain trail, and that serendipitous feeling when someone you just met is into that same thing, too. These are great feelings. And I enjoy sharing them with those around me.

How do you typically spend your leisure time?

On most nights you can find me bouncing between social organizations on campus, attending meetings and the activities they plan. One day I may be running Relay for Life. Another, I may play dodgeball. However, I also leave time for myself. I believe rest and relaxation are just as important as being social. Some evenings, I may put on some soft jazz or classical piano and stretch out on the couch. Being an introvert by nature, I need time by myself to recharge. Since I work best one-on-one and in small groups, I often invite my inner circle of friends over to watch movies or hang out.

What are five things that you "can't live without?"

Family -Don't tell them I called them things

iThings -And that's how I got 20 things at once.

Banana Bread/Tea -Cheating!? That's hardly fair

Music-That's pretty mean for this being MY profile

Air - Hmph! See if I answer your silly questions

Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?

I recently read The Evolution of Desire by David Buss. I'm a big fan of Evolutionary Psychology books and am currently in the process of a literature review for my Thesis. I do read fiction from time to time, mostly science fiction. I would read more classical books but I just watch the movies instead. Saves time. They're pretty much the same thing anyways...hmm...where...did they put...sarcasm font...hmm...nope...Oh well, never mind...Oh, you're still there. I'll have you know it is poor form to listen in on someone's internal dialogue. Go find Jacopo. He'll show you out.

Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you?

Do not be surprised if I make you work a little for personal information. I'm not trying to hide anything or be mysterious. I just don't buy into the idea of a date being a glorified job interview. If you're clever, you can always get the information you need. Rest assured, I will eventually give you what you want...though I may frustrate you for your trouble. Just remember, play nice. No sense in anyone getting hurt.

What are you most passionate about?
I am passionate about education. I try to catch guest speakers and concerts on campus. I am constantly looking for new skills to pick up, dance lessons this semester, and improving on the ones I have, playing the piano. I plan to continue the cycle and someday teach others as a professor.

What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?
I am looking for someone emotionally stable, someone content with her life but looking for someone to share it with. Do you have goals and aspirations? Relationships are great. They allow us to feel the protection of a warm embrace or a connection with another. But it’s always nice to find someone who can stand on her own.

Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?

I remember, some time ago, borrowing a book from Dr. Wesley. I made it halfway through before, unfortunately, putting it down. About a year later during a lecture she mentioned that she had given up on lending out books as they never returned. Recalling the forgotten book, I promptly finished it, and, preparing an apology, went to visit her. As I told her the story, she just laughed and said, “Oh, I learned that lesson years ago.” Taking the book, she signed it, “To my good friend, Chase.” I hold onto this story as a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, even for such a small thing as a book.

What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?

I am thankful for my supportive family. Without them, I would not be the person that I am today. I am extremely fortunate to have them.

I am thankful for the friendships I have formed over the years. I appreciate my close circle of friends in whom I can confide and trust.

I am thankful for the environment that I live in. I am grateful that I live in a nation where I am free to think, express myself, and speak out publicly.

Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?

People usually mention my upbeat nature. I look at the world half full. When I’m around others I try to add a little fun to situations. I’ve heard I’m a good conversationalist, and that I can talk with just about anyone. I try to stay well versed so that I have at least a little in common with someone.


How do you typically spend your leisure time?

I enjoy working out with one of my close friends. We have been doing a 5x5 routine since March, but are about to switch to P90X because of its popularity. At home I often listen to music, mostly jazz and piano. I stay active in my social organizations to get some variety. Some weeks we volunteer, others we play dodge ball. More than anything I enjoy one-on-one conversations with friends, usually over dinner.

What are five things that you "can't live without?"

Family/Friends

iThings

Banana Bread & Tea

Music

Comedy

Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?

I recently read The Evolution of Desire by David Buss. I'm a big fan of Evolutionary Psychology books and am currently in the process of a literature review for my thesis. I do read fiction from time to time, mostly science fiction.

Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you?

I’m a big fan of comedy. I do not watch T.V. often, but when I do, I watch Colbert and The Daily Show. I like stand up comedians and certain series, such as The Office, Family Guy, Dexter, and House.

What are you most passionate about?

In a word, people. In a paragraph? After graduating college I felt as though I had missed something in my education. I spent some time reading and self reflecting to ultimately realize that just because someone is intelligent, doesn’t mean he is socially intelligent. I decided then and there that I would spend as much time as it took to fully develop myself and my social skills. Over time I understood that people more than anything else are the key to self actualization. The relationships we cultivate and maintain shape who we are today and who we will be tomorrow. Ultimately, this decision led me to pursue a career in Social Psychology. There is a bit of a stereotype out there that most psychologists/psychiatrists need mental help more than their patients do. This paragraph, as written, puts you right into that group. Personally, I would not read past this before hitting the close button. So, might want to consider how to rewrite this to avoid this image.

What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?

There is this turning point that comes as you sit there talking to someone late at night in a coffee shop. You're laughing at something, maybe the climax of a story, and while it wasn't told as a joke, you laugh because you know what it was like for that person. You feel this connection, a vibe, and as the air settles, a small voice reminds you that just 30 minutes earlier you were basically strangers. I am not sure if I know a name for this quality. I think of it as a social intuition. Are you engaging and maintain the flow of the conversation, or are you listing your favorite sparkle vampires as I wonder how I can politely check the time? The simple word you are looking for is "connection". Also, I'd delete that last sentence because it's poorly worded and off putting.

Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?

I remember, some time ago, borrowing a book from Dr. Robbins. I made it halfway through before, unfortunately, putting it down. About a year later during a lecture she mentioned that she had given up on lending out books as they never returned. Recalling the forgotten book, I promptly finished it, and, preparing an apology, went to visit her. As I told her the story, she just laughed and said, “Chase, I learned that lesson years ago.” Taking the book, she signed it, “To my good friend, Chase. –Miss Mary.” I hold onto this story as a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, even for such a small thing as a book.
Please remove her full name from here.
What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?

I am thankful for my supportive family. Without them, I would not be the person that I am today. I am extremely fortunate to have them.

I am thankful for the friendships I have formed over the years. I believe it is important to know how to make friends and build relationships regardless of where you roam. I appreciate my close circle of friends in whom I can confide and trust. This is really preachy and too long. I'd stick with just that first sentence and delete the rest. Writing too much is just as bad as writing too little.

I am thankful for the environment that I live in. I am grateful that I live in a nation where I am free to think, express myself, practice the religion of my choice, and speak out publicly even if my views were to differ from those of the government. I am grateful for college campuses and institutions where people can come together to learn and debate openly. This is nicely written but also very long. You are not saying anything unique or even interesting here. Might want to trim it up a bit and get to the point faster.

Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?

Shortly after,”You’re tall,” comes,”You’re funny.” I’m not out there trying to entertain anyone. I simply try to talk about the things others enjoy. I’ve learned that my life is only as fulfilling and productive as those of the people around me. I’ve also learned that the right quip or the right story can turn a person’s day around. Good vibes are contagious. It’s my job to go out there and spread them. Asking people how they’re doing, really listening to them, and giving them hope that things will get better, THESE are the things I try to do. The above is a jumbled overkill of stuff. You open up with I'm funny. However, you then launch into look at what a good guy I am and what a great listener I am. Trim this up, be more precise, less self help book flavored preachy and more to the point.

Delete below. It doesn't make any sense and doesn't come across as humorous when read.

“You’re funny.”

‘Maybe.

So, tell me about that Chinese place you were checking out.’

What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?

I often hear from others that they do not think I have emotions. What I think they mean is that they have never seen me lose my cool, which is absolutely true. I try to stack the deck as best I can to stay positive. However, anger, sadness, anxiety, they do come up, but I see them for what they are. I deal with them quickly and don’t let them control me. I feel. I know the nostalgia you get looking back at the good times, how small you seem standing at the top of a mountain trail, and that serendipitous feeling when someone you just met is into that same thing, too. These are great feelings. And I enjoy sharing them with those around me.
This again is too much writing going off on a tangent that reads major past relationship baggage. Also, in your dating profile, you want to focus on what's positive about you. This basically reads passive/aggressive, emotionally closed off personality.
How do you typically spend your leisure time?

On most nights you can find me bouncing between social organizations on campus, attending meetings and the activities they plan. One day I may be running Relay for Life. Another, I may play dodgeball. However, I also leave time for myself. I believe rest and relaxation are just as important as being social. Some evenings, I may put on some soft jazz or classical piano and stretch out on the couch. Being an introvert by nature, I need time by myself to recharge. Since I work best one-on-one and in small groups, I often invite my inner circle of friends over to watch movies or hang out. That last sentence reads a bit odd. Time spent with friends is not work.

What are five things that you "can't live without?"

Family -Don't tell them I called them things

iThings -And that's how I got 20 things at once.

Banana Bread/Tea -Cheating!? That's hardly fair

Music-That's pretty mean for this being MY profile

Air - Hmph! See if I answer your silly questions

Your commentary above will make women think that your medication wore off.
Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?

I recently read The Evolution of Desire by David Buss. I'm a big fan of Evolutionary Psychology books and am currently in the process of a literature review for my Thesis. I do read fiction from time to time, mostly science fiction. I would read more classical books but I just watch the movies instead. Saves time. They're pretty much the same thing anyways...hmm...where...did they put...sarcasm font...hmm...nope...Oh well, never mind...Oh, you're still there. I'll have you know it is poor form to listen in on someone's internal dialogue. Go find Jacopo. He'll show you out.
Although I appreciate your attempt at humor here, it really doesn't come across all that well.
Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you?

Do not be surprised if I make you work a little for personal information. I'm not trying to hide anything or be mysterious. I just don't buy into the idea of a date being a glorified job interview. If you're clever, you can always get the information you need. Rest assured, I will eventually give you what you want...though I may frustrate you for your trouble. Just remember, play nice. No sense in anyone getting hurt.Huh? This reads like some weird combination of baggage, jaded, bitter, game player in need of therapy. No thanks. Next match please!