Mrblueribbon is offline Mrblueribbon Post #1  January 10,2012, 1:58pm
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I can't get women to even answer my five questions. What am I doing wrong? I have my pictures on my profile and I filled out all the information. Any tips would be great.
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MrBlueRibbon, having pics and a profile is not sufficient. You need accurate pictures and a profile that uniquely describes you. If you want to know where you're going wrong with them, feel free to post them for review. There are instructions at the top of the forum:

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Mrblueribbon wrote :
I can't get women to even answer my five questions. What am I doing wrong? I have my pictures on my profile and I filled out all the information. Any tips would be great.
Thanks!
The biggest reason that your matches don't answer your First Questions is because they are non-paying members and can't respond. If your experience is normal about 90% of your matches will be non-paying members.

Your best course of action is to contact every match that does not have any red flags or deal breakers in their profile.
 
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Post your profile and pictures for review. Filling out every section in a profile is not sufficient. How it is filled out is just as important. Ditto for pictures. The types of pictures and their content is equally as important.

Finally, what questions are you asking? Some scream issues and insecurities on your part, or are so intrusive, that I will close the match.

Let's start with your profile and pictures...
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
The biggest reason that your matches don't answer your First Questions is because they are non-paying members and can't respond. If your experience is normal about 90% of your matches will be non-paying members.

Your best course of action is to contact every match that does not have any red flags or deal breakers in their profile.
The second biggest reason is your pictures or profile, or both, are unattractive. (OK, that's two reasons.)
 
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