ami1uwant is offline ami1uwant Post #11  January 2,2012, 10:49am
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I have a round face, don't know what to tell you. I added two pictures of me doing things I enjoy: hanging out in the family boat and going camping (in this case canoeing) with my kids. They were the only two pictures I had of me doing anything. I'm the mom, therefore I'm the picture taker. I did take some photos tonight of me full length (or the best I could get). We'll see if that helps, thanks for your input.

On your pictures....

You need a good face shot showing your eyes (no sunglasses or glass glare).

Another picture showing your body down to below your hips. One of your pictures shows that but its at an odd angle..like from up a flight of stairs.

Based on the pics I see you look attractive which is a plus and have a decent figure.


As for the activities...you need to mention these things in your profile...BUT....of those things you will regularly do...not one time and done things. If you go out with your kids a couple of times and say rent a boat to go out on a lake then you can mention that...if you like to camp...mention that.

You need to get in better detail on what you like to do.

When people say they camp or travel...there are a few differences....some camp because they have this spot they go to every year. Others like to go to different spots each year. Some when they say the love camping will do a one week trip or one weekend tripo each year...while others do it every other weekend in the summer...which one are you?


Also..with you having kids.....you are at a polarizing age with this...Your dating pool is say late 20s to mid 30s. So some of the guys do have kids already and others want to start families (thus you already having kids could be a turn off). Where are you...would you have another child with a new man or are you done? There is a piece in the profile about having and wanting kids...what do you say?
 
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generallyyou is online now generallyyou Post #12  January 2,2012, 5:33pm
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I took yours and D Lion's advice about the profile and changed it. About the interests, when I created my profile I had lists I had to check off about my interests, I thought it would be redundant to put it in the profile body too. Are people not able to see those?

I am 33, so I am interested in mid 30's to early 40's. I am finding most men already have children or don't want any of their own. I really don't want more children, but I cannot predict the future so I said maybe when asked on my profile page.
 
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