Faraday is online now Faraday Post #11  December 28,2011, 2:50pm
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MsSoanso wrote :
Again. Where? In my reply to you, which is obviously casual? You really are THE Know-it-all, aren't you? Do you see any differences in your replies to my post vs the others? At least it occured to them that some attempt at sarcasm or wackiness was involved in that last paragraph, however futile that attempt was-it's pretty obvious. So you seriously think that I would brag about binge-drinking to get dates and you call me on my spelling and grammar, but cop out when I ask for help. Thank you for reminding me that the oblivious ones are the worst.
He's a nice guy, I promise.

If you re-post your profile, I'll try to give you a hand...from what I saw of it, I understand your humor, but I think it might not translate into text very well. Some humor needs context behind it, or it can be misconstrued and misinterpreted.

How long have you been on eH? Have you been having many men initiate communication with you?
 
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MsSoanso is offline MsSoanso Post #12  December 28,2011, 3:50pm
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Believe me, I understand how it can be misconstrued. I have to edit myself and fake lols constantly(and it burns)I've already redone my profile since I got the confirmation that I came off as a jerk. Really, I had half ripped it up by the time I asked for advice on it. I've been active a couple months and have had enough responses, only two dates.
 
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Lucid is offline Lucid Post #13  December 28,2011, 10:21pm
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Dear MsSoanso,

After reading your profile report, I have decided to offer up a few suggestions..

- Being yourself in text may not come across as if you were to be yourself in person.

- You have only got so many areas of text to tell us who you really are. I might suggests taking a slightly more *appropriate* approach to it considering most of your matches are looking for reasons to close you as a match rather than communicate with you. I know, its sad but true.

- Not knowing you for who you truely are I can not and will not say anything hurtful or negative towards your profile, but i might suggest taking a look at a few others posted around the site.

I might suggest taking a look at the `M 29 profile review update`, its mine and after alot of help from the community I have recieved a few commendations on it after reworking what I originally had over and over again.. which in truth wasn`t much better than yours to begin with.
Chin up and keep smiling, we`re here to support you, hope we aren`t getting you down.
Last edited by Lucid; December 28,2011 at 10:26pm.
 
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