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sony12 is offline sony12 Post #1  August 10,2011, 6:26pm
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A really attractive lady viewed me and I wondered how I could of missed that when we were first matched up so I went ahead and initiated communication.

But then a few minutes later I thought to myself was that the one with all the ....... So I quickly went to see if she was the one I was thinking of.

And indeed it was the rules lady (or at least what I perceived to be her rules). So I went ahead and promptly closed her. I originally passed on her because of all the things that she put in her profile that seemed like her rules.
 
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Haha!
I have noticed that too, at least with some of my Matches.

It seems like that the hotter (9 or 10's) they are, the more demands and rules they toss into their Profile.

I suppose they are used to having men flock to and fawn over them, and thus know they can throw more outrageous demands into their Profile.

I often wonder what guy they eventually settle on...

Because the hotter (9's and 10's) guys won't put up with those extreme demands and rules...
They don't need to.
 
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Alright... so give some examples?...
you gave us the teaser about this hot woman, then you slammed the brakes on it...
so let's at least try to salvage this thread.
 
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ScottK is offline ScottK Post #4  August 10,2011, 6:44pm
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TheThinker wrote :
Alright... so give some examples?...
you gave us the teaser about this hot woman, then you slammed the brakes on it...
so let's at least try to salvage this thread.
Haha, I know you are asking Sony12.

I have one that is just an absolutely AWESOME doozy of a demand Profile.
(Who BTW, is also extremely hot, and has an awesome career too. So I am sure she believes the demands are valid)

But...

People get so uptight and mad about posting even little snippets of Profiles even with no info about said Match, that if I were to even post a small quote, I would have people beating down my door to torch my house.
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lunabeach is offline lunabeach Post #5  August 10,2011, 6:49pm
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^^^ Paraphrase. You can use up to 5 sequential words without quotes before you tiptoe into plagiarism.
 
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ScottK wrote :
Haha!
I have noticed that too, at least with some of my Matches.

It seems like that the hotter (9 or 10's) they are, the more demands and rules they toss into their Profile.

I suppose they are used to having men flock to and fawn over them, and thus know they can throw more outrageous demands into their Profile.

I often wonder what guy they eventually settle on...

Because the hotter (9's and 10's) guys won't put up with those extreme demands and rules...
They don't need to.
A lot of guys give girls like that a chance since they are pretty attractive. Yet they often grow tired of them pretty quickly. Although those girls often don't have any trouble getting dates they often have more difficulty creating an actual relationship.

This particular lady was in her late thirties and did not have any kids yet ( a bit of an indication that she may not have had much success with guys long term).

I dated a girl like that for a while a couple years ago and I just couldn't take anymore. She was very attractive but very difficult to get along with and I ended it after a few months.

Recently I looked at her facebook page and it looks like she has severely lowered her standards (either that or I am just at that level as well and good looking girls still like to make out with me).

The guy she says she is in a relationship with now looks like one of those short fat computer geeks from those teen comedy movies.

I looked at that and just thought to myself "Honey instead of choosing to change yourself you decide to drop down to that level to find someone who will actually put up with you". I never pictured her enjoying boobs bigger then hers
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From one of the free sites [I need to shorten the wish list from a couple of matches - don't want to plagiarize.]:

One wanted no piercings, no tattoos, no motorcycles, no mustaches

I wrote her:

Piercings? No
Tattoos? No
Motorcycles? No
Mustaches? Darn! I was so close.

[I never heard back from her.]

Another needed confidence, intelligence, and kindness

I wrote her:

Seriously, what else - beside confidence, intelligence and kindness?
[I was tempted to write, you forgot h---g like a ....., but I didn't want to get thrown off the site.]

Surprisingly, I never heard from her either.
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I don't view these people as overly demanding or needing. I've always assumed they haven't had great success and try online dating thinking they'll find Mr. Perfect. At the risk of generalizing, they often seem to poof at various stages of GC and even more seem to cease to be active almost as soon as they've joined.

I don't think it's surprising that people who have no problem getting dates normally and/or not overly interested in a serious relationship quickly lose patience with online dating. Think about it - you get upward of 50 matches a week, but maybe only 6 interest you and only 2 of those are actually active and available.
 
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And these types are far less annoying/fearsome than the ones who ask ridiculous Stage 4 questions on par with filling out an employment application.

Got one of those a little while back. Made a half-hearted attempt at filling it out, which may or may not be why she's not responded to my questions. It's a shame, because I'd like to meet her but I can't invest that time when many people flake at this stage, or worse that she really does have this unrealistic and rigid preconceived notion of who she will find.

Don't try to give me the 3rd degree in GC before you've demonstrated you're able and willing to reciprocate.
 
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sony12 wrote :
A really attractive lady viewed me and I wondered how I could of missed that when we were first matched up so I went ahead and initiated communication.

But then a few minutes later I thought to myself was that the one with all the ....... So I quickly went to see if she was the one I was thinking of.

And indeed it was the rules lady (or at least what I perceived to be her rules). So I went ahead and promptly closed her. I originally passed on her because of all the things that she put in her profile that seemed like her rules.
I saw a lot of those on Match. I think they must be lacking massively in self awareness. Putting up a list of princeess like demands and they actually think an intelligent man will respect them.

I think most men hit a certain age/level of experience which probably includes being bleed dry mentally or financially by these types..... and then know to 'next' immediately they see a list.


The sort of stuff I read on 'match'....
"must have stamina inside and outside of the bedroom"

"do not contact me if you are in a deadend job"

"you should own your own business"

"why is it so difficult to find a man over 40 who has a full head of hair?"

Usually women who didn't appear that exciting enough to bother contacting. and even if they look hot in their photo..... you don't know how recent it was taken!
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