Please I need an Honest opinion

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I have not gotten many communications so I am starting to think something is wrong with my profiles or woman are not liking my pics and think I am ugly...
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Interested to see the pics - your avatar isn't bad. I don't love the hair...it's hard to tell from just the little picture, but you may look good bald. You're halfway there and it looks good


EH Profile

The one thing I am most passionate about: Family and friends! Cooking new recipes and entertaining. Also, listening and dancing to Latin Music!
Well, it's MOST passionate, so pick one thing. The Latin Music may be a good slant - have you taken classes? done ballroom? regularly go to clubs to dance? If it's a passion, show how.

The most important thing I am looking for in a person is: Someone who is genuine, able to communicate effectively and tactfully and who is considerate, thoughtful.. lol.. wait- how many qualities is that..? :P

These are all kind of cliche and the way you answer it sounds like you aren't very serious -it's ok to joke, but your answer shouldn't be bland if you're going to. It's acceptable to mention more than one thing if it's connected. This is also a good place to show what YOU can offer - think in terms of the kind of relationship you'd like to build rather than what the other person has to offer. It's much more appealing to read.




Basic Information

Occupation:I work as a Team Lead for a Support software company.
Age36
Height5' 11"(180 cm)
Wants Kids:Yes
Kids at Home:No
EthnicityWhite, non-Hispanic
Religion:Spiritual, but not religious
Drinks:Several times a week
Smokes:Never


In my own words

The most influential person in my life has been:

My brother who, despite many challenges, continually worked very hard and became a successful person - always maintaining a positive attitude along the way.
Again, bland. Add something personal. You don't have to get super personal about the challenges, but a little more detail and HOW IT RELATES TO YOU is important. You told us about your brother and didn't answer the "in my life" part.

The three things which I am most thankful for:

• Health
• Family
• My Friends
  You could add a little more detail - "My health, because [a couple words]"
  

Three of my best life-skills are:

• Creating romance in a relationship
• Communicating my innermost thoughts and feelings
• Entertaining in my home

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me:

How genuine, authentic, transparent, and honest I really am! Even though we all seek to put our best foot forward when meeting someone, I let the other see my true self from the start!

This is trying too hard - many people are skeptical of someone stating they are honest or nice. Everyone should be those things. Don't write this in terms of dating - think of your interactions in general.

The things I can't live without are:

• Dancing
• Music
• Food
• Computer
• Did I Mention Good Food?

What do you consider good food? If you're a foodie, that can be a conversation starter. This is a good place to differentiate yourself in terms of taste - what kind of dancing? what kind of music? Computer isn't inspired.

The first thing people notice about me:

Easygoing and comfortable to be with! Outgoing, putting people at ease! Also, fun! Ability to share emotionally with another!
Do you want someone to read this excitedly and somewhat frenetically? All the exclamation points make it manic. Again, it's a THING. Pick one. Never more than two.

Some additional information I want you to know:

I am a very family-oriented person who loves family and enjoys spending time with my nephew and nieces. My little niece has me wrapped around her little finger and knows I would do anything for her!


My interests

I typically spend my leisure time:

Cooking - making new recipes I've seen on TV; visiting newly opened restaurants; photography; enjoying movies either out or at home; and Latin Dancing which brings out my passion for that type of music in particular - though I enjoy all kinds.

These are good, I would just add a little more detail. Is there a particular cooking show you watch or a style of food you've mastered? You could also share whether you like to relax with a comedy or look forward to January for the new horror releases. Everyone does pretty much the same things, but not in the same way - show your preferences and women who share them will respond.

The last book I read and enjoyed:

"The Secret," by Rhonda Burn, about the Law of Attraction: Likes attract like! Basically, it's about the power of positive thinking.


According to my friends:

My friends describe me as:

• Easy-Going
• Passionate
• Hard Working
• Outgoing

Can you get some different pics? I didn't have any problems with your profile, but I agree with luna that you shouldn't use pics of other people's children. I also didn't like the first pic in the bright blue shirt, it makes you look feminine. I think the pic with the yellow car is fine. I'm not sure about the bald thing luna mentioned... I think your hair is fine the way it is!