letitbe11 is offline letitbe11 Post #1  June 26,2011, 7:16am
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So if I get a list of matches, and not getting very many profile views what is that all about? I have sent out icebreakers and questions to almost all of my matches. When I look at who has viewed me it's still a very low number... Any ideas?
 
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Most of your matches are going to be non-paying members. With the new Active Within feature you can tell which matches are active but that still does not tell you which ones are paying members.

Do not send IceBreakers. IceBreakers are widely viewed as an indication that the person is a non-paying member. Most people will not respond to an IceBreaker and many people will close someone if they send an IceBreaker.

Continue to send First Questions to any match that does not have any deal breakers in their profile. Then forget about them and move on to your next match.
 
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I turned on new matches last night--I got 9 matches and 8 of them viewed me. Even if you're selective, you don't need too many 'views'.

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Most of your matches are going to be non-paying members.
That doesn't prevent them from viewing your profile, and she indicates she's getting very few views. Non-members who view your profile may convert into paying ones to ask you out. Non-members who don't view you...

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With the new Active Within feature you can tell which matches are active
If you're really interested I would look into this. If your match hasn't been active for a week or more, it's no wonder they have not responded to you yet, you just have to be patient and wait for them.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
Most of your matches are going to be non-paying members. With the new Active Within feature you can tell which matches are active but that still does not tell you which ones are paying members.

Do not send IceBreakers. IceBreakers are widely viewed as an indication that the person is a non-paying member. Most people will not respond to an IceBreaker and many people will close someone if they send an IceBreaker.

Continue to send First Questions to any match that does not have any deal breakers in their profile. Then forget about them and move on to your next match.
I've not had to many issues with IceBrakers. As of late the few that I've gotten were active members, perhaps your experience has been a little different. There are those few Drive-Bys that will send you an IceBraker, but then some of them go straight to Open Communication too.
 
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