Open Communication: First Phone Call

I've really felt like there is chemistry between both of us the last few weeks, so the other day I finally worked up enough courage to ask her if she would like to talk on the phone with me. She agreed, and proceeded to ask me for my phone number. At first I was thrilled that she had agreed to talk with me on the phone, but I quickly started having negative feelings about the whole thing. While I gave her my phone number, she did not offer me hers. Unfortunately, I've always heard this is a bad sign and often times means that the girl really isn't that interested.

Secondly, when I sent her a message asking her when she would like to talk, she never replied (although it showed that she has been online today).

In her last message, she did mention something about getting free weekend minutes with her phone, so I'm hoping that she has the intention to call me sometime this weekend. Only time will tell I guess.

But, I guess my question for you guys is this: Do you think she has any intentions of calling me? And what do you think my next move should be?

Hi everyone, I hope I'm posting this in the right forum. If not, I apologize. But I really need some quick advice, so hopefully you guys (and girls) can help me out.

Here is my situation:

For about a month, I have been talking to this girl through open communication on Eharmony. We seem to get along really well, and we usually email each other around 2-3 times a week on there. I've really felt like there is chemistry between both of us the last few weeks, so the other day I finally worked up enough courage to ask her if she would like to talk on the phone with me. She agreed, and proceeded to ask me for my phone number. At first I was thrilled that she had agreed to talk with me on the phone, but I quickly started having negative feelings about the whole thing. While I gave her my phone number, she did not offer me hers. Unfortunately, I've always heard this is a bad sign and often times means that the girl really isn't that interested.

Secondly, when I sent her a message asking her when she would like to talk, she never replied (although it showed that she has been online today). I'm really confused about the whole situation, and frankly, I feel depressed about it as well. Whenever she said "yes" about talking on the phone, it sounded as though she was interested since she also put a smiley face with her response as well. But it's been several days now, and still no call or email. In her last message, she did mention something about getting free weekend minutes with her phone, so I'm hoping that she has the intention to call me sometime this weekend. Only time will tell I guess.

But, I guess my question for you guys is this: Do you think she has any intentions of calling me? And what do you think my next move should be?

Thanks for taking the time to read this, I hope I clearly described everything. Any questions, please ask and I'll try to clarify.

This drives me nuts when a guy asks me this. I have had guys text me to ask "When is a good time to call?" Dude, pick up the phone, dial my number, and if I pick up, it's a good time to call. I don't think it's really that difficult.

BTW- your next move should be concentrating on other matches, not the ones who ignore you.
You've given her the info..she has it.
If it's to be, it will be.